I have to agree with the other brothas, mature women do make great lovers. Although it is somewhat common to see younger white women with black men, it's the more mature that make this lifestyle happen. It's their experiences growing up in a more segregated society that made interracial encounters taboo. Now the nest is clear, why not have a black lover and find out first hand why Daddy said "stay away from black men".
Keep posting and enjoy yourself, I am sure the bros in So Cal will gladly help you!