First, some background. My wife Louise and I are both in our early forties, married sixteen years, two kids. I’ve told Louise in the past I have a fantasy of her having a boyfriend - someone to take her out to dinner, make her feel wanted (not that I don’t find her beautiful and sexy) and steal the occasional kiss and maybe more - and while she doesn’t seem keen to see it through, she’s never shut me down in disgust. I’ve got her to tell me stories of ex boyfriends, so she knows the thought of her not being with me excites me, and I’ve convinced her it’s not a big ploy for me to get some stage for myself. We’ve played a bit in the past when she’s been out at her work Christmas party and texted me to say she’s been flirting with colleagues and barmen, but I’m almost certain it’s been nothing but fiction from her side, even though it makes me hard as a rock at home.
At the end of the month, she’s going away for a two-day work conference. When she told me she’d have to be away for the night I was maybe a bit too keen to say yes, but I don’t think she picked up on it. I agreed it would be no problem, rearranging shifts so I could do the school runs and generally making it easy for her to go away and not worry about us at all. On the night she’s away they’re planning a dinner and dance, and she’s already thinking about what to wear.
So what I’m really looking for is a way to tell her that while she’s away, if she was to find a handsome delegate that wanted to take her to dinner and dance the night away, I’d be more than happy. Maybe if that’s too much maybe a drink or two. I think anything over a kiss is unlikely, but you never know.
The conference is two weeks away, anyone got any ideas for novice-level hotwifing? If there are any developments I’ll let you all know here.