Hi Ms. Lab,
lab18 said:
Here are some pics of me. I'm 5' 3", about 115 pounds, and am the submissive type. Let me know what you think of me.
I think you're a gorgeous woman with a large, voluptuous and succulent pussy, a fit, curvaceous and well-toned body, and a confident look. Obviously, you know what you want and aren't afraid to look actively for it. I hope you find it.
Meanwhile, I encourage you to continue keeping your boyfriend in line. Many women who want to be submissive with respect to a macho dominant lover, while maintaining their long-term relationship with a boyfriend or husband (as in your case), find it works best if they are or become the dominant partner with respect to their boyfriend or husband. Men are attracted to women who are self-confident and find that sexy, so your self-confidence will work in your favor. See, for instance:
Putting your man in panties:
Making Him Mind, The Transition Begins
Lady Misato — real women don’t do housework:
Real Women Don't Do Housework
Female-led relationships:
Elise Sutton's Female Superiority Page
Advantages to a woman of spanking her man:
Women who spank their man
If you find your boyfriend is not satisfactory in bed (as you mentioned), you might consider alternatives that may be more rewarding. See, for instance:
Queening your man for fun and erotic satisfaction:
The Fine Art of Queening
Chin dildos — an alternative form of oral sex:
The Accommodator Chin Dildos, Face Dildos, Head Dildos, Facial Dildos
Good luck!
—Custer
