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I agree that the taboo/submissive aspect is an important part of if, but I still have a definite attraction to men. I had it before I was even married. And without getting into details, there are plenty of other taboos that don't particularly interest me at all.
 
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Laceyfemme said:
I agree that the taboo/submissive aspect is an important part of if, but I still have a definite attraction to men. I had it before I was even married. And without getting into details, there are plenty of other taboos that don't particularly interest me at all.
As with some of the other posters, I have no interest in men other than the sub / dom fantasy element. It may be, as many have described, the taboo element of sub / gay use which provides the stimulus. It may also be the risk element of surrendering and being tied and used by another man. In life I'm not sissy inclined or attracted to men and thus, so far as labels are concerned, would not consider myself Bi or Gay.

I'm not even sure that should the circumstances arose, where I could experiment safely and discretely, I would partake.... but I might. Hard here sitting typing and thinking about it LOL.
 
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As with some of the other posters, I have no interest in men other than the sub / dom fantasy element. It may be, as many have described, the taboo element of sub / gay use which provides the stimulus. It may also be the risk element of surrendering and being tied and used by another man. In life I'm not sissy inclined or attracted to men and thus, so far as labels are concerned, would not consider myself Bi or Gay.

I'm not even sure that should the circumstances arose, where I could experiment safely and discretely, I would partake.... but I might. Hard here sitting typing and thinking about it LOL.
It is amazing how much self-denial there is in forums like this. LOL
 
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TimKnowsPlaceMWM said:
It is amazing how much self-denial there is in forums like this. LOL
This is a sincere post ... it is rare, and outstanding ... to encounter someone with a sense of humor in here. Congrats !
 
TimKnowsPlaceMWM said:
i am not gay ... i just play a gay guy in chat rooms. LOL
Gay is when you want to see the faces as well as the cocks... 🤣🤣🤣
 
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Feltmeyer said:
Gay is when you want to see the faces as well as the cocks... 🤣🤣🤣
I must be missing something. Is there a difference between enjoying gay sex and "being gay?"
 
Laceyfemme said:
I must be missing something. Is there a difference between enjoying gay sex and "being gay?"
Yeah ... the difference is some guys are self delusional, and desperately afraid to admit to themselves they are queer.
 
It doesn't really matter except to the individual. Some get off on the taboo or the shift in power, others like the way a cock feels but neither necessarily are seeking a relationship or would consider dating someone of the same sex. I don't think that is delusional any more than fucking a woman on a one night stand makes you want to date or marry her.

I seems to me that being gay is much deeper than wanting sex with a person of the same sex. I wouldn't call that a delusion.
 
Feltmeyer said:
It doesn't really matter except to the individual. Some get off on the taboo or the shift in power, others like the way a cock feels but neither necessarily are seeking a relationship or would consider dating someone of the same sex. I don't think that is delusional any more than fucking a woman on a one night stand makes you want to date or marry her.

I seems to me that being gay is much deeper than wanting sex with a person of the same sex. I wouldn't call that a delusion.
You probably wouldn't call water "wet," either. LOL Get over it, boys, it's 2024 ... being gay is nothing to be ashamed of. Life is a lot more fun and less stressful, when you don't have to work so hard denying the obvious.
 
Rickyrick said:
I think you are right! I consider myself a straight cock sucker!
Ricky, exactly what drugs are you on ? 23 MINUTES AGO ... scroll up, people ... you, Rickyrick, posted the following, and I quote "That is true! It too years for me to finely admit to myself I was queer." ?????????????????????
 
It's a lot easier to describe what we do, instead of what we think and who we are. Cocksucking, crossdressing, maybe chastity...those are all activities that are or are not actually happening.

I either will or won't watch the Superbowl, but it's harder to say whether I'm a true football fan. And maybe it shouldn't matter that much for the guys at my Superbowl party.

But if you ask me, a man is basically 'straight' if he enjoys cumming inside other people. 'Gay' is when you like other people cumming inside you.
 
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My biggest fantasy is doing 69 with my wife on the edge of the bed while a total stranger we met in the bar, during happy hour, if fucking her. My tongue and his shaft in her hole. When he is done, he pulls out and puts his cock in my mouth to clean him up. Mixed love juices would be so tasty.
 
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