I came across this forum by accident & have liked what I have read so far & I am I think like many men who first come to this forum looking for advice on how to get my wife fucked by another man.
Both my wife & myself are in our mid forties & I’ve talked to her on various occasions about her having sex with other men, her reactions have been quite varied however not once she has said she was disgusted with it or with me for brining the subject up.
I have a feeling she is interested as there have been some things in the past such as when we got married she brought up the subject of a threesome & when ever we watch porn together she always asks me fast forward the girl on girl action or the one guy one girl parts & loves me to fuck her or play with her with her dildo when watching any action involving any kind of MFM or even MMFM.
I need advice to see my wife cum with another man..
For starters, you need to make sure that you have communicated to your wife that the idea of her having sex with another man not only is OK with you, but is something that you want. She also needs to be reassured that you will NOT have sex with another woman, and that this is not some ploy to divorce her.
Discuss it seriously, not just in the middle of sex play. Tell her you are serious.
Communication is key, and letting her know that you love her is critical.
Explain to her that her pleasure is important, and that you want this not only for yourself (it turns you on) but also so that she can be pleasured.
She might like to (ff) with another woman, or (fmf) with a married couple - without you, so she can let her hair down and experiment until she finds out what she enjoys the most. It helps a lot if she can have fun trying new stuff without you always being with her.
OneForSure, I understand what you’re saying & I think the reassurance on my half is part of it.
Sahara, I don’t think any ff with another woman is on the cards as she has told me that she gets nothing out of it when we watch porn movies, that’s why we fast forward to the other action so that rules any thing any kind of ff so fmf for her with a married couple wouldn’t be on the cards either, she’s made that quite clear. She’s just not that way inclined for women.
MacNfries, well who doesn’t get carried away with a raging hard on.
One of the things for me is that I don’t last long enough for her to cum. I’m not a two or three thrust & it’s all over man it’s the fact that we can be at it for a while & I always cum long before she has started to cum herself, I have to finish pleasuring her either with one of her vibrating dildos or my finger stroking her clitoris.
Really I want to see my wife to pleasured & watch her cum even if it takes another man to do it
When you discuss the possibility of her having sex with another man, you can be very sincere in telling her that you want this for her pleasure!
The fact that she doesn't come with you has to be frustrating for her - even more than it is for you.
Perhaps she will respond better to someone else, or perhaps she will respond better just because it is "cheating". Don't feel bad because she doesn't cum with you.
You are great to be wanting this for her. Tell her your desires, and maybe she'll get on with it.
When you discuss the possibility of her having sex with another man, you can be very sincere in telling her that you want this for her pleasure!
The fact that she doesn't come with you has to be frustrating for her - even more than it is for you.
Perhaps she will respond better to someone else, or perhaps she will respond better just because it is "cheating". Don't feel bad because she doesn't cum with you.
You are great to be wanting this for her. Tell her your desires, and maybe she'll get on with it.
I know she needs to be fulfilled as woman; she’s a good woman & deserves it that is why I need to learn to reassure her it’s ok with me.
One of the times when we talked a while back about her being with another man she asked me who I would pick, I tried to reassure her then but she was surprised when I said I wouldn’t pick anybody & that would be for her to decide who she wanted & I would have to deal with it.
When I was married to my first (now ex) wife, she "cheated" on me quite a few times. She gave me my first "imported" (or any other kind) of creampie. When she told me about it after our marriage I was outraged, but now I think HOW STUPID could I be. Although 30 years ago I had never even heard of a cuckold, but now when I think about it my ex made a cuck out of me. When I realized that I was a cuckold for years and didn't even know it I became very thrilled. I still think about them cuckold days quite often, and all my fantasies are of her having me eat out her lovers leftovers. Now I am married to a wonderful wife, but I long and have practically begged for her to cuckold me too, but she absolutely will not "cheat" on me. I long for the old days when I got PLENTY of creampies.
Many women will never admit to a husband their true desires because they fear the marriage might be damaged. But they can and do admit secret things to their friends and lovers. Large numbers of cucks admit that their wives doe sexual things with their lovers that they won't do with them.
A wife may wish to have sex with another woman, but rarely will admit it to her husband.
Elsie Sutton has devised a way of getting a husband to spill his inner secrets, but there does not seem to be a way of getting a wife to empty ALL her secrets into her husband's lap.
10-15% of all children born are fathered by a lover, and hubby never gets to know the truth. Only a few woman get pregnant by their lovers, so there is a lot of secrets the wife never shares with her husband, even if they are appear to be the perfect couple.
Cucks are lucky, because they get to see their wife express her hidden sexual desires without fear of the marriage falling over. He gets to know the truth. Macho men never really get to know their wives, because he only allows her a vanilla lifestyle. She has to hide her deepest desires to protect his EGO pride from becoming wounded.
Just to let you know I’ve take the advice given & put all my cards on the table & have spoken to my wife & told her how I feel & l reassured her that I’m OK with her being pleasured by & fucking other men & that’s what I want. At fist she said “I hope you don’t expect me to do it” she was more reassured when I told her I wasn’t expecting her to do it but to do it if she only wants to & its OK for her to do it if the chance comes up with someone she fancies, this seemed warm her more to the prospect fucking someone. She was more at ease after that & when I explained that I would not have a say in whom, where or when she fucks & also told her why I wanted another man pleasure her.
I’m not putting a time scale on this as I’m not going to rush her in to it, but I’ll let you know if or when it happens.
I am pleased that youhave opened up for her. Even if she is against the idea, or says she is against the idea, the knowledge that she have a fling, or a lover will be in the back of her mind, then if the opportunity arises she may act on it.
I only hope that she lets you in on it too.
Wanting her to cuckold you is one thing. Having her cuckold you is another. Having her cuckold you and then telling you about it will be the real test.
