normally I do not reply myself, I prefer that my husband does it. It seems a bit strange to me. I love my Friday meetings. I am glad my husband talked me into it, it took years. Also love that my lover took his time to make me feel special, not just a one time deal. I love holding him tight as he is cumming. Am still amazed how turned on my husband is by it and that he wants sex with me that evening even though he knows what happend earlier in the day. I would like it occassionally more often, but quite satisfied with the two men I have now. I just think that there will be days beyond Friday where we go out together. Hope this answers your questions.