lil said:
My wife of nearly six years won't sleep with me anymore. She just doesn't act horny anymore. Sometimes if I am lucky I can get her to give me a handjob...but that's far and in between. Do you guys think she is cheating on me? And if so, is it because she's getting it better from another man? We haev sex about once every 4 months or so.
Who knows, with a woman... There are literally THOUSANDS of possible reasons why she won't give you your 'due.'
Some women can catch their man in a lie, or doing something that he (in her mind) shouldn't have been doing, and they won't say anything to him about THAT. They just cut him off, COLD. No explanation, no nothing. You just know that the sex ain't happening, anymore.
Anyway, we'd have no clue as to what's in her head about you, man. You gotta take this issue on, directly with her, and without any ambiguities. Look into your memory banks, and see if you can remember something you might have done, said, lied about, something that she saw that you didn't think she saw... If you can come up with something, that's where you start. Asking the Dark Cavern 'experts...' Well, that's kinda foolish, to my way thinking. Our priorities are gonna be about how WE can get what you ain't gettn, now.
Be a man... A man be! She's your woman, and she gotta put out. If she don't, make her see it's HER LOSS.
Good luck, and I hope she don't kick you outta the house. Women can be like that.