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My Wife Won't Sleep with Me

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My wife of nearly six years won't sleep with me anymore. She just doesn't act horny anymore. Sometimes if I am lucky I can get her to give me a handjob...but that's far and in between. Do you guys think she is cheating on me? And if so, is it because she's getting it better from another man? We haev sex about once every 4 months or so.
 
lil said:
My wife of nearly six years won't sleep with me anymore. She just doesn't act horny anymore. Sometimes if I am lucky I can get her to give me a handjob...but that's far and in between. Do you guys think she is cheating on me? And if so, is it because she's getting it better from another man? We haev sex about once every 4 months or so.
One reason the romance and fun has flew out the door,sex got boring for her with you. You need to try new things all the time to keep her interest. Also how old is she maybe she is having a hormone imbalance in which her sex drive is gone or by the wayside. Also maybe she has found someone else in which case ask her. If you have a good relationship anyway you should be able to chat about the lack of sex. Just some reason that I could think of. Muleman
 
lil said:
My wife of nearly six years won't sleep with me anymore. She just doesn't act horny anymore. Sometimes if I am lucky I can get her to give me a handjob...but that's far and in between. Do you guys think she is cheating on me? And if so, is it because she's getting it better from another man? We haev sex about once every 4 months or so.

Who knows, with a woman... There are literally THOUSANDS of possible reasons why she won't give you your 'due.'

Some women can catch their man in a lie, or doing something that he (in her mind) shouldn't have been doing, and they won't say anything to him about THAT. They just cut him off, COLD. No explanation, no nothing. You just know that the sex ain't happening, anymore.

Anyway, we'd have no clue as to what's in her head about you, man. You gotta take this issue on, directly with her, and without any ambiguities. Look into your memory banks, and see if you can remember something you might have done, said, lied about, something that she saw that you didn't think she saw... If you can come up with something, that's where you start. Asking the Dark Cavern 'experts...' Well, that's kinda foolish, to my way thinking. Our priorities are gonna be about how WE can get what you ain't gettn, now.

Be a man... A man be! She's your woman, and she gotta put out. If she don't, make her see it's HER LOSS.

Good luck, and I hope she don't kick you outta the house. Women can be like that.
 
thanks....

Thanks for all the advice guys. When she does give me a handjob, most of the time she quits and makes me finish while she talks dirty to me. She tells me that my dick is too small and that I shoudl watch her and her boyfriend fuck sometime. This all started out as hot, sex, dirty talk a couple of years ago but now I start to get the feeling that maybe she has followed through with it on her own. But I'm not sure. All I know is that she is not sleeping with me much anymore. Really not at all. She never seems horny. I have to beg and pry for a while before she'll finally let me jackoff while she talks dirty to me. Could it be that she has taken that step and is sleeping with someone else that fucks her better than I do? You guys should know that she is a prim and propper girl...very preppy and not a slutty person at all.
 
lil ;check the panties for cum smells does she take or have a bag of clothing and shower stuff in her car also check c phone for unknown calls and messages even follow her when she goes out even if she says i'm going with girlfriends!! she's hurting your pride! not horny means she doing someone or something!! FOLLOW HER!!!!
 
Not horny doesnt always mean she's cheating on you. I wonder about you guys sometimes...

Her age might have something to do with that, or maybe she feels like she's taken advantage of and/or overlooked. Maybe she's waiting for you to throw her on the bed and ravish her while you're laying there whimpering wanting her to molest you.
Could be hormones. Could be depression. Could be a million and one things.

How about you try asking her instead of asking us? lol And asking her while you're throwing a whiney hissy fit just because you're not getting laid doesnt count. My husband and I have some of our best conversations in the car while we're going from point A to point B.

Something is clearly wrong with your relationship and instead of working on it with her, you're hashing it out with a bunch of strangers who are, of course, going to say she's cheating. Because that's the fantasy here.
Der.
 
I guess ur wife needs pampering....love and affection...do things which make her happy, feel sexier.. and make her romantic...seduce her slowly.. have lots of forepplay..and if all doesnt work out. she is dating other guy
 
she is, if you ask me

lil said:
When she does give me a handjob, most of the time she quits and makes me finish while she talks dirty to me. She tells me that my dick is too small and that I shoudl watch her and her boyfriend fuck sometime.
try to initiate something, like you could go down on her
asshe gets ready to cum, look up at her and tell her you want to see her boyfriend fucking her and ask what he is like
you have to be willing to see her get fucked in you do this.
if she is getting fucked by someone else, she probably still misses the intimacy of you being there
talk to her though...

you dont say if the dirty talk was originally your idea or not. if it was, she might be wanting to fulfill what she thought was your true fantasy. of course, once she felt big dick, she was hooked
 

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