subbyuk said:
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Does anyone have any helpful tips on how i could ease her into giving it a try.
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Seriously, it's a fantasy that (likely) millions of men share, and there's no secret formula or magic potion that will make her switch flip. Patience and perseverance is required in copious quantities.
In the meantime, try the next best thing. Use a variety of toys that you can fantasize is another guy's cock. Maybe try to incorporate a larger, thicker black one for BBC fantasy, and, hopefully, her pleasure. Even if you have to keep your thoughts to yourself, enjoy the fantasy in your mind, at the least.
If she will react well to it, take her lingerie shopping and to dinner later. Make it like a date, and you have another fantasy to work with and, again, let's hope it would be pleasurable and enjoyable for the both of you..
If she will pose for pictures, 'schedule' a shoot. She can wear her new lingerie and you get to 'command' her poses. Not only will you have the fantasy of her posing for her lover, you will also have the fantasy of sharing those pics with other guys. That is a major turn-on for me and many, many others.
If a cruise is possible at some point, it provides ample opportunity to have her in bikinis or other swim wear that will compliment her assets, in front of others (men) for extended periods. FWIW, I love to 'secretly' watch other men ogle my wife or gf and 'reading' their faces. I bet you would, too.
You should also have chances to meet other couples, chat with them, go to dinner together, and you never know what could come of that. Especially if the other husband/bf is particularly handsome, charming, or otherwise appealing to your wife.
Also, push her (as you can) to be bold and naughty. Dare her to flash her tits or pussy, go out without bra and/or panties, bend over wearing a short skirt. Eventually, she will notice the attention she's getting, and there's not a woman on Earth that doesn't love that!
Fuck her in front of an open window (bondage/blindfold may be incorporated/necessary). Go to a motel, perhaps on the seedy side, have her dress like a slut, and make your own videos. Masturbate in the car, either driving or parked somewhere (rest area along the highways, truck stops, parking lots, etc.).
Of course, I have no idea if your wife is willing to do any/all of the things I suggested, but encourage it nonetheless. Reinforce the idea that she is sexy, and she is appealing and attractive to other men. It may or may not pay off in the end, but even if it doesn't, you still can have a lot of fun!
