Games you could play....
Korigador,
Re.:
Korigador said:
It is a turn on for me when she thinks I am someone else having sex with her and she calls me another name.
That sounds quite positive. If your wife is willing to tease you in that way, it's a good sign. I suggest encouraging her, *whenever* the two of you are in bed together, to imagine (and, if she thinks visually, actually visualize) you as another man she feels attracted to, and call you by his name, especially (of course) when she orgasms. She could play this game while fondling you in bed even if you aren't actually having sex.
Another game you might consider suggesting would involve the two of you going out together for routine activities in public such as (for instance) shopping for groceries. Encourage her to look for men she finds sexually attractive and point them out to you, perhaps by whispering "him" in your ear while gesturing or pointing briefly in "his" direction. And, of course, encourage your wife to make eye contact with other men, particularly those she finds attractive.
Another game you might suggest could be played in the evening and would involve pretending your kitchen (or dining room or living room) is a bar. Initially, pretend you are the bartender. Your wife orders her drink, and you bring it. Then, pour yourself a drink and — pretending you are "another man, an attractive potential lover," take your drink elsewhere in the room and begin sipping it. The game would consist of your wife bringing her drink over to you, asking if you mind if she joins you, then seducing you with conversation combined with suitable facial expressions, gestures and other body language. If she does a good job, reward her in some fashion to be chosen by her. (Any feedback you give your wife should, of course, be positive. Be careful about this — if she senses you are "debriefing her," she may be offended and conclude she doesn't like games of this nature.)
—Custer