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Things are moving quickly. They have to because she wants her first strange before she comes back. Picking up on inosentsfun's comment, don't be surprised if she expands the "Can't say no" agreement. She has given him her number and said yes to the date request. And yes, she went shopping with him after accepting the date. (She didn't tell you that.) I bet she honestly said I don't have the right dress to wear among the clothes I packed. He enjoyed the implied intimacy of clothes shopping and, yes, wanted her dress to be sexy. She said yes to a sexy dress. He might take it off of her before you even see it. What else will she say yes to? My bet is everything. But he might not push things much on the first date, If she has a second date, demand she not wear a bra or even better wear specially bought for him sexy lingerie. There is so much angst knowing that some other guy took that sexy lingerie off that was bought especially for him. Perhaps she will never wear that lingerie for you. Perhaps she won't let you see it.
Per inocentsfun the only control you have is to push her to do more. At this moment I think he is right. You would have to have a nervous breakdown or a medical emergency to stop her right now. After she has been home and you have reclaimed her you will talk more about ground rules and expectations. Right now your expectation is she will get fucked. And she will. But she is going to fuck a guy that she will spend time with in the US. Surprise, surprise. More than just a stranger fuck but instead someone she could have a relationship with built around their love of art.
Now airhorn's caution about misrepresenting her marital status comes to light. You should consider advising her to tell him the truth sooner rather than later. Having fun with a hot wife is one thing. Thinking of her as a potential wife is quite another. She can become his fuck buddy and his confidant as he seeks a permanent relationship. Or maybe he's already married and plays around. That's a different matter! Then she can wait to tell him the truth and then make a sexy game of it with him, and then give him a good fuck to make amends for teasing by misleading him.
You will have many more surprises because she is thinking about this as much as you, and leaving you partially clueless is part of her fun.
Per inocentsfun the only control you have is to push her to do more. At this moment I think he is right. You would have to have a nervous breakdown or a medical emergency to stop her right now. After she has been home and you have reclaimed her you will talk more about ground rules and expectations. Right now your expectation is she will get fucked. And she will. But she is going to fuck a guy that she will spend time with in the US. Surprise, surprise. More than just a stranger fuck but instead someone she could have a relationship with built around their love of art.
Now airhorn's caution about misrepresenting her marital status comes to light. You should consider advising her to tell him the truth sooner rather than later. Having fun with a hot wife is one thing. Thinking of her as a potential wife is quite another. She can become his fuck buddy and his confidant as he seeks a permanent relationship. Or maybe he's already married and plays around. That's a different matter! Then she can wait to tell him the truth and then make a sexy game of it with him, and then give him a good fuck to make amends for teasing by misleading him.
You will have many more surprises because she is thinking about this as much as you, and leaving you partially clueless is part of her fun.
My wife sent a short email about her night. It's really late her time so she didn't write much but promised more later. She said "I really enjoyed my date tonight!" but that "nothing happened.. well, nothing, major.." But apparently he did ask her out again, and she said yes. He told her "I looked womanly in his dress, as he knew I would." She said he made her feel sexy, and asked how I felt about that. And believe me she was right when she said "I bet that makes your little guy hurt.. mmm."
My cock is going crazy right now, and it's going to be agony waiting all day until she wakes up so I can hear more details. I keep imagining her in his dress, or trying to imagine it -- it's so devious of her not to even tell me what it looks like. It kills me to know she was on a date and wearing a dress he bought her. And yes, it was definitely a date, her email confirms that much. I keep trying to imagine them at this art opening. Were they simply spending time together? Or were they already acting like a couple and moving about the room together? Was his arm around her waist? Was he acting like he possessed her? I mean, he already had her wearing his no doubt expensive dress. I keep imagining all the different possible little intimacies, even though she said nothing "major" happened. Whispering in her ear. Placing his hand on the small of her back as they look at paintings together. Getting her another glass of wine. My hands shake a little trying to type this..
Innocentsfun, you're goading me to goad her to do more, and it's working. Your suggestions sound hot. I would love it if her "Can't say no" agreement expands such that she simply "Can't say no" to other men. I want her to become the submissive little slut I know she is. I am considering telling her she must do everything he tells her to. It would make both of us so hot. And really, accepting that expensive dress and wearing it for him, she almost already has agreed to become his. The possibility he will take that dress off her before I ever see it is intoxicating. She has a little more than a week left. Things are starting to happen.
And for the kicker, here's the last line from her email:
My cock is going crazy right now, and it's going to be agony waiting all day until she wakes up so I can hear more details. I keep imagining her in his dress, or trying to imagine it -- it's so devious of her not to even tell me what it looks like. It kills me to know she was on a date and wearing a dress he bought her. And yes, it was definitely a date, her email confirms that much. I keep trying to imagine them at this art opening. Were they simply spending time together? Or were they already acting like a couple and moving about the room together? Was his arm around her waist? Was he acting like he possessed her? I mean, he already had her wearing his no doubt expensive dress. I keep imagining all the different possible little intimacies, even though she said nothing "major" happened. Whispering in her ear. Placing his hand on the small of her back as they look at paintings together. Getting her another glass of wine. My hands shake a little trying to type this..
Innocentsfun, you're goading me to goad her to do more, and it's working. Your suggestions sound hot. I would love it if her "Can't say no" agreement expands such that she simply "Can't say no" to other men. I want her to become the submissive little slut I know she is. I am considering telling her she must do everything he tells her to. It would make both of us so hot. And really, accepting that expensive dress and wearing it for him, she almost already has agreed to become his. The possibility he will take that dress off her before I ever see it is intoxicating. She has a little more than a week left. Things are starting to happen.
And for the kicker, here's the last line from her email:
oh one more thing, I did not wear a bra
Can't wait to hear more of her date.
Would love to see her become some guys property for a bit. Dressing as told. Acting as told out in public and in the bedroom.
Love to imagine a nice sweet wife become that ***** she always wanted to be but doesn't have to worry too much of her reputation cause shes married and has a husband who is into it too.
Not too much of a fan of my GF dating but do like the idea of her acting like a single modern woman, where she would have booty calls when she was horny. Knowing she can go about being the normal GF/woman in public but when shes horned up a hot guy pal is just a booty call away.
Can't want to hear what she has to say about her lil date. More details please KS!
Would love to see her become some guys property for a bit. Dressing as told. Acting as told out in public and in the bedroom.
Love to imagine a nice sweet wife become that ***** she always wanted to be but doesn't have to worry too much of her reputation cause shes married and has a husband who is into it too.
Not too much of a fan of my GF dating but do like the idea of her acting like a single modern woman, where she would have booty calls when she was horny. Knowing she can go about being the normal GF/woman in public but when shes horned up a hot guy pal is just a booty call away.
Can't want to hear what she has to say about her lil date. More details please KS!
I agree. Things are going fast and in a right way. Now is the time to bring out the submissiveness in both of you. So here goes.
I command you to email Min-Ju and later tell her that for the rest of her time in Korea she must follow these rules:
1. She can not say no to any man's request.
2. She must dress sexy except with her parents.
3. She can not wear any bra she took with her. She can only wear a bra under these conditions:
a. She decides it will be sexier for her to wear a bra (for example unwrapping the presents) AND
b. She bought the bra to be sexy, i.e. low cut (aureolas peaking out) or see through, or... to be worn once only in Korea. So each time she wants to wear a bra she must buy a sexy one.
4. She must flirt with every man she meets. Mostly just to make his day. Sometimes to encourage him to ask for things.
5. When a guy asks for anything relating to being together or sex she not only can not say no--she must enthusiastically say yes. The goal is to willingly fulfill his every wish.
6. She must take art guy lingerie shopping with her within the next two days.
7. She must follow this rule 7, that you devised.
If you two like exhibitionism then add "You must flash your thong once a day".
Are you looking forward to her having overnight trips to set up the exhibit?
I command you to email Min-Ju and later tell her that for the rest of her time in Korea she must follow these rules:
1. She can not say no to any man's request.
2. She must dress sexy except with her parents.
3. She can not wear any bra she took with her. She can only wear a bra under these conditions:
a. She decides it will be sexier for her to wear a bra (for example unwrapping the presents) AND
b. She bought the bra to be sexy, i.e. low cut (aureolas peaking out) or see through, or... to be worn once only in Korea. So each time she wants to wear a bra she must buy a sexy one.
4. She must flirt with every man she meets. Mostly just to make his day. Sometimes to encourage him to ask for things.
5. When a guy asks for anything relating to being together or sex she not only can not say no--she must enthusiastically say yes. The goal is to willingly fulfill his every wish.
6. She must take art guy lingerie shopping with her within the next two days.
7. She must follow this rule 7, that you devised.
If you two like exhibitionism then add "You must flash your thong once a day".
Are you looking forward to her having overnight trips to set up the exhibit?
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Here is a copy of the email I sent Min-Ju this morning:
I sent this before I saw George's rather thrilling list of new rules. I will bring these up to her when we talk after she wakes up. #4 and #6 are especially hot. I also poked the bear a little by sending a separate email confessing my feelings about being trapped in chastity on the plane among all those hot flight attendants, and how I have become newly aware of the women around me and how helpless I am in their presence. I'm not sure how she'll respond. It will make her hot, but it also might make her jealous. This might prompt her to be a bit more.. assertive.
These two emails are now waiting for her to read when she wakes up. She'll see them before she even talks with me about her date last night or her next steps, which should give her all the approval she needs from me. There's nothing I can do to take those emails back now.
I sent this before I saw George's rather thrilling list of new rules. I will bring these up to her when we talk after she wakes up. #4 and #6 are especially hot. I also poked the bear a little by sending a separate email confessing my feelings about being trapped in chastity on the plane among all those hot flight attendants, and how I have become newly aware of the women around me and how helpless I am in their presence. I'm not sure how she'll respond. It will make her hot, but it also might make her jealous. This might prompt her to be a bit more.. assertive.
These two emails are now waiting for her to read when she wakes up. She'll see them before she even talks with me about her date last night or her next steps, which should give her all the approval she needs from me. There's nothing I can do to take those emails back now.
Great! Great! Your email to Min-Ju is poetic and sets the just right loving, approving, encouraging, playful tone.
Emails are great. As you say, you can't take them back. Your dick is talking irrevocably.
My command remains except adjust the rules to make things even better between you two. Be sure to include and possibly reinforce whichever rule bothers you the most.
Follow up your 'commands' talk with a confirming email. You should draft it now. Share your confirming email with us. Sharing your draft for the group's comments would be fun.
If I am being too pushy tell me and I will adjust. But I think you like having your chain pulled. Here you have the illusion of loss of control yet retain ultimate control.
Emails are great. As you say, you can't take them back. Your dick is talking irrevocably.
My command remains except adjust the rules to make things even better between you two. Be sure to include and possibly reinforce whichever rule bothers you the most.
Follow up your 'commands' talk with a confirming email. You should draft it now. Share your confirming email with us. Sharing your draft for the group's comments would be fun.
If I am being too pushy tell me and I will adjust. But I think you like having your chain pulled. Here you have the illusion of loss of control yet retain ultimate control.
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this has got to be the best thread on the net... i love how frequently you are posting and how much detail you are sharing... when you think of you wife being with other men do you imagine her with a specific type of guy? white, black, asian, young, old, gym body, corporate suit, etc? how far do you want things to go? you should show Min Ju this thread so she can post here too if she wants... can't wait to hear the next development in this awesome tale! I'm very jealous and would love to be in your position.
also, maybe she didn't wear any bra with the dress he bought for her as maybe it is a backless dress with the back and sides showing bare so she couldn't wear any with it... just imagine maybe her whole back and lots of side cleavage were possibly showing.... just maybe
also, maybe she didn't wear any bra with the dress he bought for her as maybe it is a backless dress with the back and sides showing bare so she couldn't wear any with it... just imagine maybe her whole back and lots of side cleavage were possibly showing.... just maybe
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MystTiger, thanks for the compliments. I may be biased but I tend to think my girl is the "best," too. Your suggestion of a backless dress with side cleavage would look so hot on her, but it would not work in Korea. Haha! Maybe I'll look into ordering something like that for when she gets home, both as a way to reclaim my girl somewhat and to encourage her to keep playing. As for type of guy, what matters most is personality: someone she feels comfortable with, but also someone who scares her in a little. She likes it rough, so she would get wet and submissive with a guy who can really toss her around a little, but who also has the mental side to spark her imagination. So much of the erotic is mental, at least for us. That said, her dildo at home is black, and there is definitely a taboo there, especially for her growing up in Korea. Having her spread for a rival or someone I don't like is also hot.
Following George's instructions, here is a draft of the rules I will propose to Min-Ju for us to discuss:
1. Min-Ju is "free to date" as she pleases.
2. She cannot say "no" to any man's request.
3. She must dress sexy, except with her parents.
4. Any bra or underwear she wears for a man must be bought specifically for him. If she did not buy it for him, she may not wear it.
5. She must flirt with every man she meets. Mostly just to make his day. Sometimes to encourage him to ask for "favors."
6. When a man asks for anything relating to being together or sex, she not only cannot say "no" -- she must enthusiastically say "yes." Her goal should be to please other men.
7. She must buy a dress and heels for her next date with the artist, using my card. At the end of the date, she must ask him to take her lingerie shopping.
8. She has full permission to share any details of our play with her girlfriends, no matter how cruel or humiliating to me.
9. I am locked at her whim.
10. Since I failed to provide her condoms, they are a matter for the guy she is with.
11. Birth control pills are up to her and her girlfriends.
If you have suggestions, or if there are other rules you want to impose on my Min-Ju, let me know.
Following George's instructions, here is a draft of the rules I will propose to Min-Ju for us to discuss:
1. Min-Ju is "free to date" as she pleases.
2. She cannot say "no" to any man's request.
3. She must dress sexy, except with her parents.
4. Any bra or underwear she wears for a man must be bought specifically for him. If she did not buy it for him, she may not wear it.
5. She must flirt with every man she meets. Mostly just to make his day. Sometimes to encourage him to ask for "favors."
6. When a man asks for anything relating to being together or sex, she not only cannot say "no" -- she must enthusiastically say "yes." Her goal should be to please other men.
7. She must buy a dress and heels for her next date with the artist, using my card. At the end of the date, she must ask him to take her lingerie shopping.
8. She has full permission to share any details of our play with her girlfriends, no matter how cruel or humiliating to me.
9. I am locked at her whim.
10. Since I failed to provide her condoms, they are a matter for the guy she is with.
11. Birth control pills are up to her and her girlfriends.
If you have suggestions, or if there are other rules you want to impose on my Min-Ju, let me know.
Koreanslut,
Turnabout is fair play.
She cock blocked you on the airplane (and beyond). So consider having her pussy blocked on the airplane and until she gets home with you. Have her insert Ben-Wa balls. If not readily available, three or four (as many will fit) pingpong balls will do. Golf balls would be even better as they have some weight to them.
Turnabout is fair play.
She cock blocked you on the airplane (and beyond). So consider having her pussy blocked on the airplane and until she gets home with you. Have her insert Ben-Wa balls. If not readily available, three or four (as many will fit) pingpong balls will do. Golf balls would be even better as they have some weight to them.
Good edits.
Do these rules apply, for now, only while she is in Korea? I suggest yes. Later after reclaiming and talking revise and reapply the rules.
What about her not wearing a bra when she is not with a man but just doing vacation things and flirting with every guy she meets. Or prohibiting any bra she took with her. No bra or 'boyfriend's bra' reminds her at all times that she is a sexual person and adds naughty to the flirting.
"At the end of the date..." How about within 30 minutes of their date starting? Improves the date dynamics and tells him there will be a date 3.
When is date 2?
Which rule bothered you the most?
Do these rules apply, for now, only while she is in Korea? I suggest yes. Later after reclaiming and talking revise and reapply the rules.
What about her not wearing a bra when she is not with a man but just doing vacation things and flirting with every guy she meets. Or prohibiting any bra she took with her. No bra or 'boyfriend's bra' reminds her at all times that she is a sexual person and adds naughty to the flirting.
"At the end of the date..." How about within 30 minutes of their date starting? Improves the date dynamics and tells him there will be a date 3.
When is date 2?
Which rule bothered you the most?
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Require her to be fully stuffed as you were fully locked. You want it to go beyond what she has already done.
You couldn't take it off so she cannot take them out. Yes, she will be uncomfortable by 14 hours. Or create a sexy 'for you' penalty if she does take them out for relief.
What impact do you want the Korea experience to have on your upcoming honeymoon? Perhaps for your honeymoon she should apply the same rules to you that applied to artist guy in Korea. Then going back into beta male and denial will be such an angst producing contrast. Thereafter you will know and feel first hand what boyfriend of the moment is getting and you're not.
You couldn't take it off so she cannot take them out. Yes, she will be uncomfortable by 14 hours. Or create a sexy 'for you' penalty if she does take them out for relief.
What impact do you want the Korea experience to have on your upcoming honeymoon? Perhaps for your honeymoon she should apply the same rules to you that applied to artist guy in Korea. Then going back into beta male and denial will be such an angst producing contrast. Thereafter you will know and feel first hand what boyfriend of the moment is getting and you're not.
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Your description of the right kind of guy is right on.
BTW, given the dress shopping activity, I's say date 2 is really date 2.5. Will date 2.5 break the piñata? With your encouragement and a new just for him dress, shoes and lingerie, and a lingerie shopping trip set up, I say yes. Especially so if she agrees to your rules.
BTW, given the dress shopping activity, I's say date 2 is really date 2.5. Will date 2.5 break the piñata? With your encouragement and a new just for him dress, shoes and lingerie, and a lingerie shopping trip set up, I say yes. Especially so if she agrees to your rules.
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a bit of a random post here but just something i want to share... its a really hot video
http://asianamaporn.com/view.php?id=16#.U8G8LxZD5uY
watch that video and just imagine that is your girl being taught how to suck a D by one of her future lovers... pretty hot! and admit it, you know she would never use those skills on you!
http://asianamaporn.com/view.php?id=16#.U8G8LxZD5uY
watch that video and just imagine that is your girl being taught how to suck a D by one of her future lovers... pretty hot! and admit it, you know she would never use those skills on you!
The idea of her having to ask him to take her shopping within the first 30 minutes makes my heart rate go way up. And I know it will make hers go way up too. So that revision goes in.
The honeymoon idea sounds really delightful where I'm sitting right now...
If anyone has other suggestions for rules (page 5), let me know.
The honeymoon idea sounds really delightful where I'm sitting right now...
If anyone has other suggestions for rules (page 5), let me know.
You're trying to kill me, MystTiger! I can't handle that kind of stimulation in my condition, but I can't help watching. And now I feel like I'll need to confess this to Min-Ju.
(Yes, I mean a honeymoon where she has to serve and please me. Though I'm not sure I could say no if she asks for a honeymoon under her lock and key.)
(Yes, I mean a honeymoon where she has to serve and please me. Though I'm not sure I could say no if she asks for a honeymoon under her lock and key.)
I think you could really play with the penalty for taking the balls out for relief. If you insist on golf balls, I bet she will want relief regardless (or because of) the penalty.
What aspects of a penalty appeals to you?
1. Something she does on the plane?
2. Something that embarrasses her?
3. Something she does with you later?
4. Something she does with some else later with you watching?
In any case if she wants them out she must do it while in her seat--that's what airplane blankets and magazines are for. Ditto for reinsertion. Will she smell of sex?
The penalty may go up the earlier she takes them out and the longer she keeps them out. In any case they should be in when she lands.
#1. on the plane examples with #2 elements: she would need at least two versions because her circumstances and seat neighbors are not known beforehand. #1a. She unbuttons her blouse and tucks her bra under her breast so male neighbor can see her breast and nipple for the rest of the flight. She rearranges for good viewing after coming back to her seat. Extra credit--She tells neighbor he's been nice so she decided to pep up his flight. Does he enjoy the view? Extra-extra credit--Would you like to touch it? #1b. She flirts with a guy, blouse partially unbuttoned, trying to get him to join her in the lavatory.
#3. What do you like?
#4. Would you like to watch?
Check out Sassy Susan writings on literotica.com for ideas.
What aspects of a penalty appeals to you?
1. Something she does on the plane?
2. Something that embarrasses her?
3. Something she does with you later?
4. Something she does with some else later with you watching?
In any case if she wants them out she must do it while in her seat--that's what airplane blankets and magazines are for. Ditto for reinsertion. Will she smell of sex?
The penalty may go up the earlier she takes them out and the longer she keeps them out. In any case they should be in when she lands.
#1. on the plane examples with #2 elements: she would need at least two versions because her circumstances and seat neighbors are not known beforehand. #1a. She unbuttons her blouse and tucks her bra under her breast so male neighbor can see her breast and nipple for the rest of the flight. She rearranges for good viewing after coming back to her seat. Extra credit--She tells neighbor he's been nice so she decided to pep up his flight. Does he enjoy the view? Extra-extra credit--Would you like to touch it? #1b. She flirts with a guy, blouse partially unbuttoned, trying to get him to join her in the lavatory.
#3. What do you like?
#4. Would you like to watch?
Check out Sassy Susan writings on literotica.com for ideas.
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