Does hubbby want you to be off birth control when it happens? If so, whats your view. Personally I prefer going bareback it enriches the experience. However, if you do be careful. Pick someone who you can trust. AIDS, HIV are all out there, but so are STD's. Good luck and let us know what transpires.
Your husband wants you too, and you seem interested, please let us know how it comes out. (play on words) In Deep and others have told you to be carefull, but I feel you are mature enough to know to do that and you are waiting on the right time, place and person. Does your husband want you to be inpregnated by a black man, many do, and the interracial child is so very beautifull.