you are on your own, my wife does what she wants and I cant keep her tied down, never have ,never will, shes going through her sexual peak right now and she loves all the attention that shes been getting for years now , but she finally has givin into having sex. the thing that gets me is that she never had a thing for blk guys, so she has said to me since Ive known her for 16yrs . But since the night we partied with 2 blk guys in a hotel room . It has changed. she has only gone out with blk guys since then and it been almost 2yrs now and 7 blk guys that I know about so is she a bbc lover or what, I love her