When a man takes his wife to a party, she doesn't dress to please him. She dresses to make herself as attractive as possible for the best bull at the party - it is a primal urging to mate with the best genes, so her genetic line will still be surviving in ten thousand year's time. Every woman in the room is competing for the best bulls, even though they don't realise that. When two women turn up with the same dress, they both feel pissed off.
A wife is flattered by the attention of other men flirting with her, even if she has decided to remain loyal to her wedding vows. Only a cold hearted prune of a woman could not enjoy flirting and extra attention from other potential lovers.
Of course a wife mostly doesn't plan to allow her enjoyment of other men's conversation to go too far - but if her husband has been neglecting her and taking her for granted, then her unmet needs MAY cause her subconscious mind to issue ORDERS for her to TAKE what is being offered: and she can suddenly find her panties around her ankles in the bushes outside, or in the back seat of a car; or her and her lover may climb up on the roof and fuck while cars drive past.
The same moral (intention) lapse occurs when a woman who has been dieting too hard, suddenly finds her body binge-eating cakes of chocolate (and not being able to stop) as her subconscious mind forces her to regain the weight set out in the mind blueprint of her comfort zone.
When a husband and wife pursue a cuckold marriage, the blueprint is reset, so her thighs being opened by strangers becomes the new rules. Once a wife has had some extra candy in her life, she will never be able to give up the "new taste" if her husband later on gets cold feet and begs her to give up her lovers.
(once a baby learns to walk, it never goes back to "crawling only").
(the benefits of a wife having "two husbands" are too great to give up one of them).
(a husband who pushes his wife into "agreed adultery", then changes his mind is a cunt).
A man should think carefully about what the benefits are from becoming a cuckold, because asking his wife to open her legs for strangers, is akin to opening up a pandora's box of emotions.
Women have unmet needs they don't even know about until a stranger fucks them - then all hell can break lose, and in days her body won't be able to give up the "gift she has been given". You don't give your wife an expensive present, then ask for it back the next day, because she would have already told her mother and friends about your generosity. Because when she has to tell everyone that you have grabbed the gift back, you will be seen as more than a rotten bastard, and she will feel humiliated at being married to such a tosser, a loser, an asshole.
If you are a cuckold, you can't go back to old times. You must honor your decision to share your wife with other men for the rest of your marriage. No exceptions to the rule.