hey eightball thanks for asking. its been up/down over here. lots of new updates though. i'm apparently slow on the uptake of things. back in mid june/early july her lover wanted her to quit having intercourse with me for 3 weeks. apparently this was an attempt to get her pregnant, which succeeded. i had no idea they were planning this, and i'm still in shock quite frankly. our first child she had to take a bunch of fertility meds that were quite expensive, this time i guess she didn't need them. she's 4 1/2 weeks pregnant right now, of course not showing yet. i still don't know what to think. i can't believe they did it behind my back. feel like a chump.