My Asian Wife Wants More

[mystTiger]

thanks for the update... its great to hear about her date in such detail... I'm very interested to see where things with Caleb go in the coming weeks/months... it is interesting how he is introducing her to his friends and colleagues, most likely as his new girlfriend i presume, even though she keeps reminding him that she is already in a relationship with someone... then when they are together sexually it seems he is using her as his toy, he seems to have put extra emphasis on her being a slut this time and specifically 'his slut'... perhaps this emphasis that he is putting on her being a slut for him is what is driving her to not want you to see her as a slut also... she needs the reassurance from you that she is still your beautiful wife in your eyes....

anyway, I'm interested to see how it all develops... i think he is someone who is open to her being in a relationship but i get the feeling he is too jealous / possessive to be open to letting you watch them together, i think if he finds out about the situation he will be asking her to have no sexual contact with you at all...

 

[George]

Great update. Yes, it is better that you were so supportive of her and thankful for her adventure she shared with you. If you are begging for release, please do so in a playful, non-whining way. Ensure her that you can survive without release, but her beautiful presence and her game playing gets you unbelievably hot and desperate for her intimacy.

As for the magic wand, you could try it on your own for a moment -- only a moment -- to see if your balls can stand the vibrations. You don't want to try it with her and then make her stop because it hurts. That's not playful.

Someday you will show your cage to SooYun. So arrange it so you two get the most play value out of it. Maybe more days of playful threatening by Min-Ju would be good.

As for Caleb, I agree with mystTiger. I think Caleb is having difficulty understanding the situation and is used to 'owning' his girlfriends. But I don't care if he is confused. I only care what impact he has on Min-Ju and you. He is trying to possess Min-Ju. I recommend you hold off his knowing your hotwife / cuckold dynamic for some more weeks. He needs time to commit more to Min-Ju as a person so he will be less willing to hurt her terribly by being mean to her husband whom she loves. Also Min-Ju needs to experience and decide for herself how much submission she wants with Caleb. Submission as a theory is nice. Submission as a fact being good or bad depends on the specific relationships involved. Is Caleb a potentially 'good' Dom or is he a potentially destructive Dom. At this point no one knows, including Caleb. You might want to look again at the months-old proposed rules for a 'good' Dom in the BOX file you can access. The Caleb situation needs to develop, to ripen, before Min-Ju or you do something dramatic such as revealing to him her true relationships. I know this is at variance to my previous 'dinner and breakfast with Caleb at your place' suggestions. The change in my advice is the possessiveness and hints of violence Caleb has shown. Min-Ju and you need to know him better before granting him more levers and power. Twice he has grabbed her neck. I find that a potential indicator of a violent streak. Find out first. Apart from potential violence, Caleb may try to destroy your marriage once he knows. Now he won't succeed at that, but his attempt will be distressing for all. This is not to say Caleb is a bad person. But remember he has been given Min-Ju without earning that gift by caring for her. He has been set up to be an uncaring taker. His intimacy and power over Min-Ju exceeds his care for Min-Ju. They have an artificial relationship. Let it stabilize before you two poke the bear again.

Most importantly, always ask "what is best for Min-Ju". That is your guide.

 

[koreanslut]

I got home from work early today, but as luck always has it, Min-Ju is working late. She's texted though that Caleb wants to see her after work. He's called for his blow job slut. Should I tell her to say yes?

There are certain signs around the house that a woman leaves when she is on her period, and certain signs when it is over. I saw those signs yesterday.

Yesterday, in bed together as she teased and played with my cage, she talked about how horny she's been... how long it's been for her...

 

[smallcockedcuck916]

I would tell her to go over and be a good BJ slut but try to deny her pussy to him since he didnt ask for anything more than a Bj slut. She probably wont be able to since it has been so long but if she is successful they both will feel the sting of the denial when both have been so long without fucking

 

[mystTiger]

Yes! She must go and see him. If she doesn't accept her role as his BJ Slut again a third time he will be very disappointed with her. Maybe suggest she wear the SLUT collar you mentioned to me that she owns. That would make it very hot for him if she came to him wearing that! I think it would really surprise and please him to see her wearing that for him. I'm looking forward to hearing what happens...

 

[koreanslut]

You're right of course. It's true. I've texted her:

"Yes, baby, you should say yes. You have to."

 

[mystTiger]

Good... do you expect she will stay the night with him now?

 

[George]

Good, you and she are doing what you agreed to. As long as what you agreed to is what you want, go for it.

I find it reassuring that Min-Ju keeps asking for your permission to be naughty. She remembers that at bottom she is your slut, not his. You should remind her of this. You two are playing at her being cruel and dominating you. The play is fun. So is the play of you dominating her. You two keep oscillating between these roles. That is more than OK. It is real. You have a duality in real life.

Your text, again is perfect. You want and she agreed to grant him dominance--at least during this play period.

I think it is wonderful that Min-Ju will be getting fucked the first day she feels 'clean'. May she have a fuck filled month--With Caleb twice a week, and hopefully with Guy #4. And with you?

Will you be fucking her in October? If so, I hope it is during a significant vanilla re-connection period lasting several days. A mercy quick fuck would be a humiliating release to you, but unsatisfying to her as you will pop too soon and not measure up well against her best extra-marital fucker. Yes, you will have to accept that you will never again be the best physical fucker she has enjoyed. She has already told you Caleb fucks her better than you. But not to worry. Satisfaction is built more on love than cervix banging. She and you need periodic emotional intimate re-connections to grow the physical aspects of your growing love.

Oh, and I expect you won't be seeing her tonight. Maybe about noon tomorrow she'll let you know she's home. Instruct, not beg, her to stay overnight. Tell her she deserves a morning wood fuck. You'll see her when you get home from work tomorrow after she returns from her Thursday bar session--Yes, instruct her to go to the Thursday Adventure bar. You'll see her after that.

 

[koreanslut]

We've texted a few more times. She's finished up work and heading out straight to her date with him. I assume that means she's wearing her yoga clothes, unless she planned ahead and packed something. Here is our text conversation:

Her: Are you sure, baby?

Me: Yes. Go see him. Have fun.

Her: I won't see you tonight.

Me: I know.

Her: Miss you *>

Me: Miss you too. Love you xoxo

[Few minutes pause]

Her: Can't wait. Need you.

 

[George]

What does Min-Ju mean with her "Can't wait. Need you." comment? Did she mean "Need him"?

Ok, she beat you to the punch of instructing her to stay overnight. So, text her that you'll will be in full cuck mode tonight and tomorrow while she is enjoying his morning wood. Then remind her you will see her after she gets home from her Thursday night bar adventure.

What are you going to buy her or do for her to thank her for fucking Caleb tonight and tomorrow?

We will stay up with you sharing your vigil.

 

[koreanslut]

I'm not sure. She didn't text again. Am I crazy to wonder if she meant that for him?

 

[George]

No. I read it she meant "need him".

How much do you want to bet that Caleb asked and got from her when her period would end? He's called for her the first night she said she would be capable of taking his dick in her pussy.

Which do you think will be first? Over the kitchen counter or living room couch in the rear, or his roommate is there so it's on his bed in the rear. Given that he didn't want to kiss her after he cummed in her mouth, I expect this time she will not blow him to completion, that's what she will use her pussy for.

If she packed clothes to wear for him after yoga, you know she/they planned this the night she hung her head over the edge of his bed. (Did she enjoy the intimate view as his balls bounced on her forehead?) You could check her closet so you might know if she took clothes, but in actuality be left with the angst of not being sure. Even if you could account for every outfit she has and remember the one that is missing, she could have bought something new for him you haven't seen. Oh the angst.

Other subject: Do you know what happened to her pink flyaway lingerie? Maybe she'll wear the lingerie you bought her for him tonight. Imagine she starts leaving more and more sexy things at his place--some things you don't even know exist.

 

[mystTiger]

my feeling is that she meant to send that text to him to let him know how much she is looking forward to seeing him again and feeling him inside her but in her state of hurried excitement she incorrectly sent the text to you...

 

[George]

Your conjecture is the most likely answer. That means she was likely responding to a text from him.

 

[koreanslut]

If she is truly so horny as to have made that mistake in texting, then yes it won't be long before he's inside her. It may already be happening. If the roommate isn't home, I can easily imagine her crawling up on the couch so he can pound her hard and rough from behind. When we first started dating, we couldn't see each other every day and when I was able to bring her home we often fucked like that, moments after bursting through the door, our hands clutching at each others' clothes.

I'm not sure what is happening, and yes, it's quite exciting and a little angsty. I want to text, but for now I'm holding back. Partly because I want her to have space and have fun. But also partly because I suspect she won't be able to reply right now.

I plan to text her as George suggests, instructing her to stay the night. I should, shouldn't I?

This, by the way, is the collar Myst is referring to. It's something she has worn a few times in the past, but has forgotten about. Maybe I should suggest it to her again. Imagine if there came a time she wears that for Caleb.

 

[George]

Yes, instruct her to stay the night even though she has already told you she will. Also instruct her to enjoy her morning wood fuck. Also instruct her to do her Thursday adventure. That means some 34 hours without seeing her. Get used to it. Weekend dates are next. Then trips.

"Darling, stay the night and enjoy his morning wood tomorrow. I'll see you after your Thursday bar adventure."

Some other day instruct her to wear her slut collar some time you two feel extra horny naughty submissive. Again I suggest she wear it and little else or at least nothing else that covers the sexy bits, except a coat with a tall collar so she can travel there. Then off with the coat and on her knees. But this all depends on his demonstrating he will not hurt her, well at least no more than she wants.

 

[asianboy]

It would be really hot if Minju wore that collar along with her bodystocking underneath a trench coat next time Caleb calls her. I am sure he will be a very happy man to have his blowjob slut dressed like that.

 

[George]

Re: Slut collar. KS could modify it to take a pad lock OF WHICH HE HOLDS THE KEY. He could add a "Gift to Caleb" tag signed by Min-Ju. She can tell him she forgot the key so she wears it the entire time there and back home. Payback for wearing the cock cage on the airplane home with Min-Ju having the key.

 

[smallcockedcuck916]

asianboy has the perfect image in that description he would probably blow a load in his pants if she came to him like that

 

[George]

Yes, and he would rip a hole in the crotch that KS couldn't do.