Sexy lady!
You are in Southern California? (Huntington Beach you said)
There are SO many swingers and sex clubs in So Cal! Pick a few to find out more about, or take a trip to Hedo 2 or something!
IDK why it is that guys take to the Internet so much...
If you alone want her to fuck another man or just to show off your hot wife I can see that angle... If YOU BOTH want to bring guys into the bed room then just go to any bar/ club in town and let her flirt and mix in with guys. I'm sure more then a few will like to fuck her. There are alot of half stepping losers in clubs, but there are just as many real players and shaggers out there. If she likes a guy and he likes her bring up the issue of her being married and what thats about. If he bails then- fuck him! If he is down and is clean then you can have your fun.
The main key is that SHE WANTS TO do it as much as you do.
Seek sex IRL! These days too many ppl are on the net looking for sex. Thats fine and good but there are 100s more willing and available sex partners (potential and immediate) to connect with if you if you are in any major US city on any given night at the club scene.
Shit, my pals still troll MySpace looking for hook ups and shit- in the time they get one or two into bed (1 to 3 weeks) I've had great sex with 3-5 wonderful ladies I met just going about my daily life (shopping, on the train, at the gym, clubbing etc).
Same with looking for a dude you your wife. IRL is much better IMHO.
Still if you like the net, join Adult Friend Finder or stuff like that. There are a shit load of So Cal swingers to meet with there.
Any way.... Good luck!
(oh, show us naked pics of her! A few standing pics shot from the front and the rear and many ones where she is posing in sex positions- like doggie and on her back legs spread, bending over to touch her toes nude etc
)
Take care!