Moving guy and wife

[Custer Laststand]

I love the way [my wife] said jokingly with a laugh:

“I hope you are not falling for him”

Your wife may have left unsaid: "because I'm falling for him."

LOL, i wish I could easily explain what’s been running in my brain since last Sunday.

From what you've said (above), it sounds like it's still too early to talk openly and directly with your wife about that. But, you might consider starting a "cuckolding game" with her when you're in bed together. You might say something like, "I think it would be hot if you pretend you've taken a lover and imagine that I am your lover." Don't say anything about who she might imagine her lover to be. Then, get her to say things like "Oh darling, you're so much better than my husband" while you're fucking. Then, notice whether that results in your wife becoming more passionate. Then, encourage her to continue pretending she is seeing a lover whenever the two of you are alone together, and perhaps taunt you a bit by saying things like: "You're a good husband, baby, and I love you, but my boyfriend is SO much better in bed....". In this way, you might be able to indirectly introduce your wife to the idea that you're comfortable with the idea of her taking a lover and are actually turned on by that idea.

Anything I should do in then next 24 hours?

Focus on your plan to become friends with Marquis, but don't plan anything beyond that at this point.

 

[DWilson]

Small casual conversation this morning

I: Honey, quick reminder I am meeting Marquis for drinks later today

Shelly: Yes, take the house keys with you

I: Yes I will do, anything we should tell him?

Shelly: Don’t know, like what?

I: I do not know but just checking

Shelly: May be thank him on the job he did? I was worried about breaking wall or stairs and nothing of that sort happened

I: Ok, may be I will also ask some tips on how to build a body like his (laughs)

Shelly: looks like someone is jealous of him..(laughs and walks away)..

 

[bobstudio83]

Small casual conversation this morning

I: Honey, quick reminder I am meeting Marquis for drinks later today

Shelly: Yes, take the house keys with you

I: Yes I will do, anything we should tell him?

Shelly: Don’t know, like what?

I: I do not know but just checking

Shelly: May be thank him on the job he did? I was worried about breaking wall or stairs and nothing of that sort happened

I: Ok, may be I will also ask some tips on how to build a body like his (laughs)

Shelly: looks like someone is jealous of him..(laughs and walks away)..

Looking forward to hearing more. Good Luck!!!

 

[msbevw]

Be careful. Shelly may conclude you are thinking about Marcus for yourself!

 

[DWilson]

Be careful. Shelly may conclude you are thinking about Marcus for yourself!

Thanks for the concern but I am not worried about that. There is no doubt in her mind about my preferences

 

[biguy153]

i totaly hope this works out for all 3 of you

 

[DWilson]

Looking forward to hearing more. Good Luck!!!

Spend 2 hours with Marquis in a speakeasy’ish bar. Loved his friendly, bashful and yet subtle dom nature during the chat. He is mostly a quiet guy, big on listening than talking. Subtle dom thing came across a few times, once after a long delay in getting the drinks he went to the bar and made his disappointment loud and clear. We didn’t talk about Shelly much except once he asked me how we met and what he liked in me before we got married.

 

[DWilson]

No Idea on what should be my next step..

 

[Custer Laststand]

No Idea on what should be my next step..

Start your "cuckold game" when you and Ms. Shelly are in bed together, whispering your suggested game in her ear, with no hints (early on) about who she might imagine as her pretend lover, and see if you can get her thinking along those lines in a playful way.

Also, begin thinking about inviting Marquis over for lunch on a Saturday or Sunday, with your wife Ms. Shelly. Now that you and Marquis have become friends, you don't need any additional excuse. If there's additional "moving work" you could hire him to assist you with, that would be fine.... but, if not, just have him over for lunch.

 

[DWilson]

When I met Marquis he told me that his cousin is looking for some work. She lost her job during COVID. I told him I will chat with Kelly and see if the boutique she works at may have something

I am out today for work and I sent a text message to Kelly

“Honey, I forgot to let know you that Marquis needs your help. His cousin is looking for job and I told him that may help as she has some experience with boutique. Do you mind calling her”

Shelly: “What’s her number?”

I: “I don’t have her number, call Marquis and ask him”

Shelly: “Does he know me?”

I: “Tell him you are Shelly, he knows”

 

[Custer Laststand]

When I met Marquis he told me that his cousin is looking for some work. She lost her job during COVID. I told him I will chat with Kelly and see if the boutique she works at may have something I am out today for work and I sent a text message to Kelly.

i assume in referring to "Kelly" you mean your wife "Shelly." Anyway — if Ms. Shelly takes the initiative and calls Marquis, that will be a plus.

Since you don't seem to have a good idea of how to pursue your (apparent) goal of getting your wife Ms. Shely to hook up, so to speak, with Marquis, I suggest you consider that "hotwife / cuckold husband" forms of marriage tend to work out best if the wife is the dominant partner in the relationship. To begin moving your wife in this direction, I suggest introducing her to:

Real Women Don't Do Housework
Real Women Don't Do Housework

(in which the author, "Lady Misato," notes that the title is somewhat tongue-in-cheek). Encourage your wife to take the "Marriage Quiz," at the beginning, then read the chapters, one at a time, at upper left, implementing Lady Misato's recommendations vis-a-vis her relationship with you as she does so.

The RWDDH site does not recommend specifically that a married woman take a lover (or lovers), but it will probably guide your wife in the direction of taking the lead in your marriage, i.e. in the direction of establishing an FLR (female-led relationship) with you, which.... in turn.... will enable her to feel comfortable with the concept of it being her right and privilege to take a lover.

 

[bobstudio83]

No Idea on what should be my next step..

Continue the friendship aspect. Do things with him, have him over, etc. The closer you and him become the more easier it will be for you both to open up and be honest. At some point, and you don't have to rush it, you can tell him your wishes. Also, the more you do with him, puts Shelly in a comfort zone. Just do "normal" friendship things. Some men / people get "caught" be others with things like browsing history on their computers. Suppose you are looking at IR porn, and happen to walk away from your computer and Shelly accidentally discovers what you are looking at. There are some great stories in the Cuckold Story section here. So you happen to be reading one of those stories while you and Shelly are home, and you get up to go to the bathroom and she discovers it. Or you could time it to have a story open when she is out somewhere, but as soon as you hear her arriving, you leave the story up and go to the bathroom, leaving it for her to discover. You'll find in those stories that once they discover it sometimes the wife will ask the husband "so this is what you want me to do"? Similar things like that. Just a suggestion my friend.

 

[lnohhnvm]

i hope there is more.

 

[becontree2001uk]

Looking forward to know where this is going. Good luck in your quest

 

[Custer Laststand]

No Idea on what should be my next step..

How's it going, DWilson? Did you introduce your wife Ms. Shelly to the "Real Women Don't Do Housework" site, and is she proceeding along those lines with you...?

 

[DWilson]

For those who are still interested

Shelly helped Laila (Marquis’ cousin) to get a job in a woman apparel store. She got the confirmation last night and this morning Marquis sent me this text

“David, give my thanks to Ms Shelly for helping Laila get the job. Laila told me she was a big help”

Any suggestions on reply?

 

[bobstudio83]

For those who are still interested

Shelly helped Laila (Marquis’ cousin) to get a job in a woman apparel store. She got the confirmation last night and this morning Marquis sent me this text

“David, give my thanks to Ms Shelly for helping Laila get the job. Laila told me she was a big help”

Any suggestions on reply?

Keep us posted...thanks

 

[DWilson]

I am thinking on something like

“Marquis, why don’t you send a text to Shelly? She will like hearing from your directly”

Thoughts?

 

[bobstudio83]

I am thinking on something like

“Marquis, why don’t you send a text to Shelly? She will like hearing from your directly”

Thoughts?

That would be great!! And not suspicious at all.

 

[DWilson]

May be even asking him to call her directly

“Marquis, why don’t you call Shelly and thank her? She will like hearing from your directly”