DWilson said:Shelly and I chatted about Marquis when we were in FL. I made sure we included him while [during] sex and in after sex pillow chat. I was happy to hear Shelly moaning saying his name, imagining she is fucked by him. ..........
Nope, got one for my wife and she enjoys it very much lol!DWilson said:I am thinking of buying a black dildo for Shelly. It’s all about getting her comfortable with the idea of black man and I think seeing a black dildo will help.
Does anyone think it is a bad idea?
I can confirm this is a very good idea. My wife needed to know just how good being really filled felt. It helped remove her last reservations on trying a bigger cock.Bottomcuck said:Nope, got one for my wife and she enjoys it very much lol!
Great suggestions on giving the sex toy a pet name. I picked a nice big one from the store, will surprise her tonightbbd711 said:I agree that this is a good idea, I bought one for my wife and she grew to love it. I might also suggest you give her new sex toy a pet name like Tyrone or Darrell and later comment on how she seems to really be getting off on Tyrone's Big Cock. This gets her more comfortable with the idea of her receiving pleasure from a cock other than yours, and hopefully, a Big Black One!
DWilson said:Great suggestions on giving the sex toy a pet name. I picked a nice big one from the store, will surprise her tonight
Got one last night and Shelly loved it. Haven’t seen her moan so loudly when it disappeared inside her. We are calling it “Maurice”DWilson said:Great suggestions on giving the sex toy a pet name. I picked a nice big one from the store, will surprise her tonight
Sounds like things are progressing nicely. Don't push too fast. Enjoy it as it unfolds.DWilson said:Got one last night and Shelly loved it. Haven’t seen her moan so loudly when it disappeared inside her. We are calling it “Maurice”
Not necessarily, a lot of women need to feel some kind of connection with the person first, and a little security that once the clothes come off they are not going to be a jerk or not respect boundaries. As well as having things in common to talk about in between sessions lol!encasedforfun said:First off, @DWilson thanks for sharing! I am definitely enjoying reading about your saga and progress, and it seems like others are enjoying it as well!
I'm curious about your thoughts, and anyone else that has experience with this, in terms of how things are progressing with Marquis. It definitely seems like your wife and him are starting with connecting emotionally, rather than physically. Is this cause for concern? That she is beginning to see him as a stable emotional pillar or friend first and fuck buddy second?
I will admit it’s risky. However, as I said earlier, I will do everything based on her preference and she is not in favor of one night stands without knowing Marquis. She isn’t that type of girl. She needs to know the man who she is intimately close to her in bed. He can’t be a stranger, period. Other girls can be different.encasedforfun said:First off, @DWilson thanks for sharing! I am definitely enjoying reading about your saga and progress, and it seems like others are enjoying it as well!
I'm curious about your thoughts, and anyone else that has experience with this, in terms of how things are progressing with Marquis. It definitely seems like your wife and him are starting with connecting emotionally, rather than physically. Is this cause for concern? That she is beginning to see him as a stable emotional pillar or friend first and fuck buddy second?
My wife has done one night stands but she does not like them. She is happiest when she has dated the guy for awhile. Then she can really relax and give herself to him. The way Shelly is going is perfect. When she is ready he will get her body and soul. When she comes home hubby will see a wife who is overjoyed with the experience.encasedforfun said:First off, @DWilson thanks for sharing! I am definitely enjoying reading about your saga and progress, and it seems like others are enjoying it as well!
I'm curious about your thoughts, and anyone else that has experience with this, in terms of how things are progressing with Marquis. It definitely seems like your wife and him are starting with connecting emotionally, rather than physically. Is this cause for concern? That she is beginning to see him as a stable emotional pillar or friend first and fuck buddy second?
My wife loves the feeling of being dated, she never had one night stands before being married she is interested in it now. The feeling of being dated is exciting for her because you get all the excitement and butterflies of firsts again that you can’t get in a marriage, but she can also explore sexually without being viewed poorly by a future husband. At least I’m hoping I’m explaining that the right way lol!KandJPlus said:My wife has done one night stands but she does not like them. She is happiest when she has dated the guy for awhile. Then she can really relax and give herself to him. The way Shelly is going is perfect. When she is ready he will get her body and soul. When she comes home hubby will see a wife who is overjoyed with the experience.