Great points, pimpology
Great points, Pimpology. To each their own. We all have our own things and our own ways of getting what we want, who we want, and when we want it. IF it works for the individual, then that is all that matters.
I don't buy into the being disrespected to get laid by black men. I do not consider myself a "slut" but I chose to sleep with who I do. If others consider me so, that is their business until they abuse their rights of free speech. Their are times we all like to be called names, mainly in the bedroom, but that is another thing entirely. And what I chose to do, how I chose to do it is my business, not anyone else’s, except for maybe my husband.
I agree with you on the white male thing too. I had a guy saying that because I like Erotic literature that I must be a man. I am not, and why can’t we enjoy what we enjoy. I like strip clubs, bondage, burlesque dancers, and find the female body sexy too, does that make me a man? The lesbians at the bar the other night wouldn't have paid me any attention if that was the case. Judging someone’s sexuality because they like something is messed up. That's like saying if you like Marlboro cigarettes you must be a rugged man, because that is what the billboards portrayed for over 30 years. I have a female friend and a gay male friend who smoke those. Who am I to tell them they are wrong?
Also, I hate to break this news to you black men, but not all husbands who like to have their women experience black males are cucks. I thought that is why they have the cuck website for that specialty. Some men just like to watch and or share experiences to broaden everyone’s experience. I happen to be married to one of those men. Again to each their own. I know that if you were to disrespect me in front of my white hubby, he will call you out on it. And he is not a wimp. I haven't seen too many 180 lb men who bench 320, deadlift 250+ and still have the dexterity and speed to play centerfield on their softball teams. And I really don’t want to bail him outta jail when he kicks some guy’s ass who disrespected us. And to be honest, why do men fight anyway! Make love, not war. It is much more pleasurable.
Point is we are all on here to get what it is we want. I try not to hate on anyone, because I have no right to judge you anymore than you have any right to judge me. And in the end, what does it matter anyway.
So now that my thread is filled with philosophy and psychology and pretty well ruined, can't we all just get along?
Notsoinnocentgrl1980
Great points, Pimpology. To each their own. We all have our own things and our own ways of getting what we want, who we want, and when we want it. IF it works for the individual, then that is all that matters.
I don't buy into the being disrespected to get laid by black men. I do not consider myself a "slut" but I chose to sleep with who I do. If others consider me so, that is their business until they abuse their rights of free speech. Their are times we all like to be called names, mainly in the bedroom, but that is another thing entirely. And what I chose to do, how I chose to do it is my business, not anyone else’s, except for maybe my husband.
I agree with you on the white male thing too. I had a guy saying that because I like Erotic literature that I must be a man. I am not, and why can’t we enjoy what we enjoy. I like strip clubs, bondage, burlesque dancers, and find the female body sexy too, does that make me a man? The lesbians at the bar the other night wouldn't have paid me any attention if that was the case. Judging someone’s sexuality because they like something is messed up. That's like saying if you like Marlboro cigarettes you must be a rugged man, because that is what the billboards portrayed for over 30 years. I have a female friend and a gay male friend who smoke those. Who am I to tell them they are wrong?
Also, I hate to break this news to you black men, but not all husbands who like to have their women experience black males are cucks. I thought that is why they have the cuck website for that specialty. Some men just like to watch and or share experiences to broaden everyone’s experience. I happen to be married to one of those men. Again to each their own. I know that if you were to disrespect me in front of my white hubby, he will call you out on it. And he is not a wimp. I haven't seen too many 180 lb men who bench 320, deadlift 250+ and still have the dexterity and speed to play centerfield on their softball teams. And I really don’t want to bail him outta jail when he kicks some guy’s ass who disrespected us. And to be honest, why do men fight anyway! Make love, not war. It is much more pleasurable.
Point is we are all on here to get what it is we want. I try not to hate on anyone, because I have no right to judge you anymore than you have any right to judge me. And in the end, what does it matter anyway.
So now that my thread is filled with philosophy and psychology and pretty well ruined, can't we all just get along?
Notsoinnocentgrl1980