I'm a white guy, thirty years old and I married the first Mexican girl I ever dated. She's seven years younger than me. She's beautiful but I guess what really attracted me to her and wanted me to marry her was the fact that she treated me great, was loyal, and was a lot less high maintenance than the white girls I'd been dating.
We dated for nearly three years and almost right away she came across as a bit of a racists when it came to Blacks and Puerto Ricans. I grew up in the south so I was use to this.
We've been married for nearly two years now and I recently discovered that in spite of her apparent racism towards them, she'd been with a black before. Before we'd even met. It made me mad at first because we had supposedly be completely honest about our past and she hadn't told me that before. We had a big argument and she cried a lot, confessing to me that she'd actually been with several black men before me. I told her I thought she didn't like black people and that she was a bit of a racist and she agreed, but that just confused me because if she didn't like them so much, why had she slept with so many. She wouldn't answer me other than just saying it happened.
My question is has anyone else been in a similar situation with their wife or girlfriend and if so what did you do about it? How do I trust her now?
PS: This is not about our sex life together, because I know for a fact that it is incredible for both of us. Everytime we're together she cums at least twice.
We dated for nearly three years and almost right away she came across as a bit of a racists when it came to Blacks and Puerto Ricans. I grew up in the south so I was use to this.
We've been married for nearly two years now and I recently discovered that in spite of her apparent racism towards them, she'd been with a black before. Before we'd even met. It made me mad at first because we had supposedly be completely honest about our past and she hadn't told me that before. We had a big argument and she cried a lot, confessing to me that she'd actually been with several black men before me. I told her I thought she didn't like black people and that she was a bit of a racist and she agreed, but that just confused me because if she didn't like them so much, why had she slept with so many. She wouldn't answer me other than just saying it happened.
My question is has anyone else been in a similar situation with their wife or girlfriend and if so what did you do about it? How do I trust her now?
PS: This is not about our sex life together, because I know for a fact that it is incredible for both of us. Everytime we're together she cums at least twice.