If you've read my posts, we longer have much of a sex life, but Friday night we played. It has been so long since the last time I can't remember.
Anyway, I fingered her to 4 orgasms during which there was little talking, but I told her I was going to cum all over her pussy and then lick her clean. I asked if she'd like that and she said yes. I told her I'd probably need some encouragement. She stopped me from pursuing #5+ due to a mix-sex mild Asthma flare-up.
Disclaimer: I loose ALL interest in sex after orgasm.
I got between her legs and stroked my cock making sure to rub her clit each stroke, then I unloaded all over her pussy. When I was done, I gave her a towel for cleanup. After I rolled back to my side of the bed, she said, "I thought you were going to lick me clean".
So I now know she is OK with it, actually wants me to do it, that it isn't just 'sex talk'. Next is to get her to give me the encouragement to follow thru. BUT, yes BUT, the next time we have sex will most likely be many months from now, she won't remember any of it and I'll need to start all over again.