every12seconds said:
Thank you for the post. I look forward to reading it in detail.
However, what I am really looking for is human contact. someone who is in the same boat I am, or someone who used to be in my place.
You're welcome. You already have the best human contact you're likely to have for moving your fantasy forward: your wife.
If your wife is sexy, as you said in your initial post, she's probably used to having men look at her and, in various ways, express sexual interest. And, she may secretly wish she could respond to them, but she doesn't because she is.... well.... a married woman. If so, she is probably among the women who would find it sexually satisfying and psychologically rewarding to step up, step out, expand her sexual horizons, and become a hotwife.
Thus, I suggest gently starting this program:
How to Transform Your Wife to a Hotwife:
http://www.hotwifeblog.com/2007/05/23/wife-into-hotwife/
That is, don't be pushy, but caste everything in terms of your appreciation of how sexy she is, with (e.g.) sly smiles and hints about how other men are admiring her. And, figure out ways to reward your wife (with flowers, perhaps, or by taking her out to dinner) whenever she makes an advance toward verbally expressing her interest in other men.
Also: more than one wannabe cuckold in this forum has persuaded his initially-reluctant wife to start fucking other men by starting out with a pretend bedroom game, in which the wife plays a dominant role in their relationship and pretends to date, seduce, and fuck other men as she pleases. A good template for moving forward along these lines is offered here:
Real Women Don't Do Housework:
http://rwddh.blogspot.com/
Your wife should be your partner in maximizing eroticism and sexual satisfaction for both of you, so go for it!
And, good luck!
