I like the idea of having her gf help arrange things Josetta, thanks for the great advice. My gf is currently in the process of moving, and will actually very close to her gf and her blk bf. I anticipate things to escalate over the next month or so if all goes well. Aside from occasionally bringing her sexxing bbc up occasionally I haven't progressed things. I'm hoping to maybe get her to watch some IR porn soon....a dildo might be too much right away, but already have her dressing in really sexy lingerie (she's always been into that, incl garters and heels etc.) so i hope to progress things soon.
Thanks again all.