Hi All:
Hoping that I might be able to get some good advice. Over the past couple of years, my wife and I have fantasized and roleplayed with the idea of her being fucked by a dominant lover while I watch. At first she would play along during love making but always tell me that the next day how much she loved me and that she would never really do it for real. She no longer tells me she would not do it, and has been purchasing really sexy lingerie over the past year. The roleplaying involving a another male has become a primary focus during sex for us and she really loses herself in her passion when pretending that I am abull. She becomes extremely aroused, wet, and open as soon as we start to discuss another male, and preferably a very dominant male who "makes" her do things she has not done with me.
Over time our fantasy has eveloved into two areas, one is where I surprise her and bring a lover to a hotel where we are staying, and the other is where she picks up a guy and takes him back to the hotel room. She told me last night during sex that she really loves the fantasy of picking a guy up. I went along with the fantasy and told how I would bet that it would make her feel really sexy knowing how men are attracted to her.
She always tells me that she wants me to watch, and over time has begun to discuss some details of her fantasies. These usually involve a male who has a large cock (although mine is not small) and she has recently begun to admit to me that she gets very hot thinking about kissing the guy, and actually having some attraction to him. Generally, when she discusses her fantasy, she tells me that she would want him to fuck her first and then have me second. She also told me last night that she would want him to fuck her for a really long time.
This past weekend we had sex two times, and each time my wife would tell me how when she "plays with her pussy" she fantasizes about how we are in a bar at a local hotel and how she picks up the bartender and brings him back to our room. She told me that she loves the idea of him kissing her and stroking her and then he seductively undresses her while I watch. I think that would be sexy to watch, but hard at the same time. She told me that she could just imagine how hard I would get watching her lover undress her.
Over time she has admitted more and more to me and I am wondering if she would actually consider living out the fantasy. She is quite attractive and we have a really nice marriage which includes having enough trust in one another to discuss our fantasies. I think she would be afraid of what could happen if we really did it!
Any thoughts?
Hoping that I might be able to get some good advice. Over the past couple of years, my wife and I have fantasized and roleplayed with the idea of her being fucked by a dominant lover while I watch. At first she would play along during love making but always tell me that the next day how much she loved me and that she would never really do it for real. She no longer tells me she would not do it, and has been purchasing really sexy lingerie over the past year. The roleplaying involving a another male has become a primary focus during sex for us and she really loses herself in her passion when pretending that I am abull. She becomes extremely aroused, wet, and open as soon as we start to discuss another male, and preferably a very dominant male who "makes" her do things she has not done with me.
Over time our fantasy has eveloved into two areas, one is where I surprise her and bring a lover to a hotel where we are staying, and the other is where she picks up a guy and takes him back to the hotel room. She told me last night during sex that she really loves the fantasy of picking a guy up. I went along with the fantasy and told how I would bet that it would make her feel really sexy knowing how men are attracted to her.
She always tells me that she wants me to watch, and over time has begun to discuss some details of her fantasies. These usually involve a male who has a large cock (although mine is not small) and she has recently begun to admit to me that she gets very hot thinking about kissing the guy, and actually having some attraction to him. Generally, when she discusses her fantasy, she tells me that she would want him to fuck her first and then have me second. She also told me last night that she would want him to fuck her for a really long time.
This past weekend we had sex two times, and each time my wife would tell me how when she "plays with her pussy" she fantasizes about how we are in a bar at a local hotel and how she picks up the bartender and brings him back to our room. She told me that she loves the idea of him kissing her and stroking her and then he seductively undresses her while I watch. I think that would be sexy to watch, but hard at the same time. She told me that she could just imagine how hard I would get watching her lover undress her.
Over time she has admitted more and more to me and I am wondering if she would actually consider living out the fantasy. She is quite attractive and we have a really nice marriage which includes having enough trust in one another to discuss our fantasies. I think she would be afraid of what could happen if we really did it!
Any thoughts?
