Is it as hot if you dont have to convince her?

[Changed]

Hi
I am new to the site, not new to the fantasy, though.
This is a question that intrigues me. Most often, a wife or gf is reluctant to cuckold her guy. Most women take a lot of convincing. I really love that part of this dynamic. The more reluctant the wife or gf is, the more erotic the whole idea is to me. Maybe it's because her reluctance signifies that she is more innocent, or conventional. There may be lots of reasons for it.
In any case, it's almost a letdown for me when I hear about a wife who just takes off into the cuckold lifestyle without any hesitation.
Does anyone else have the same take on this, or is it just me?

 

[Wishinghubs]

Not just you, I feel exactly the same way as you!

 

[BigdaddyToronto]

Different kinds of hot.
The slutty, cant control her sexual impulses around men type of hotwife is hot too.
In your example, the husband is still very much in control.
in the other example, the wife is calling the shots....maybe even relinquishing control to the boyfriend.

 

[Regn]

Hi
I am new to the site, not new to the fantasy, though.
This is a question that intrigues me. Most often, a wife or gf is reluctant to cuckold her guy. Most women take a lot of convincing. I really love that part of this dynamic. The more reluctant the wife or gf is, the more erotic the whole idea is to me. Maybe it's because her reluctance signifies that she is more innocent, or conventional. There may be lots of reasons for it.
In any case, it's almost a letdown for me when I hear about a wife who just takes off into the cuckold lifestyle without any hesitation.
Does anyone else have the same take on this, or is it just me?

To clarify, the particular way I was cuckolded differs from _some_ members of the site. I was not the one encouraging or arranging for the cuckolding I got. Rather my ex was operating on her own behind my back. Now, a friend did suggest to me that if I had admitted the cuckings I was getting to myself, and confronted my ex about it, it could have led to my watching her be taken by other guys. Possibly, but I can't answer that as I never would admit to myself that the hints she would toss at me were real. But, to address your question, I have to confess that when, after we split, and was confronted with undeniable evidence, I had no recourse but to admit to myself what was going on. However, I would point out that the humiliation of accepting that you have been cuckolded by multiple guys is in fact an enormous turn-on, and thinking about your wife taking some guys cock behind your back can't be beat for its arousal factor!