exactly what she said. she can't even count all the dick she has missed. i gave her a hall pass in 1968 to use on one of my USAF buddies who frequented our appt. she really liked him, but i didn't know until about a year ago that she never used it. back then, i didn't know enough to ask how it went or what her thoughts were. totally naive, both of us.
after she told me she didn't act on it, i tried to contact him. our home towns were only 100 miles apart. we were in NY & he was in PA. unfortunately, he passed in 2005 from lung cancer. when i told her, she broke down sobbing for two, straight, days. she was really bummed out.
pete