Impotence - Ejaculatory Imcompetence

[Son of John]

I wonder how many wife-sharing men suffer from a form of impotence, called "Ejaculatory Incompetence", which really means they have trouble cumming. These men usually have great difficulty getting-off under any but the most exciting circumstances.

Most men with EI, for instance, cannot easily cum while fucking their wives. No matter how excited they may be, or how badly they want to cum in her pussy, it is still difficult unless something "extra" is added to the experience.

For many, that something extra is having another man there to fuck her while the husband watches. In nearly all these cases, the husband has no trouble fucking his wife and cumming in her pussy after another man has just done so. These men usually report that it is very stimulating to stick their dick-heads into a well of cum left behind by another man, inside their own wives' pussies!

I have discussed wife-sharing with many different men and I have seldom talked with any man who claimed that he could not cum in her cunt after having watched another man fuck her.

This fact alone is enough to support the practice of wife-sharing becuase it allows the husband to "perform" in a way that he could not otherwise. Not only are they able to cum whereas they might not be able to do so otherwise, but they also report that their orgasms are much more intense and enjoyable, simply because this other man has fucked the wife first.

 

[Atlopencpl]

I wish I had that problem - I have the opposite - my clit gets near her pussy and it cums no matter how I try to hold back

 

[austin30s_mwm]

I wonder how many wife-sharing men suffer from a form of impotence, called "Ejaculatory Incompetence", which really means they have trouble cumming.

Wow, that is exactly the problem I have. I never knew there was a name for it!

 

[Josetta]

Wife-sharing should involve at least three lovers for the wife, and sloppy seconds should always greet the hubby. It is much better for hubby not to be first inside her pussy on any occcasion as this will help him to appreciate that the other three men are adding value to the marriage by giving his wife the extra sexual loving she needs and deserves. This makes the marriage stronger because the wife is much happier and satied.

 

[Custer Laststand]

.... and where do you get all this wealth of information, Berenia?

Probably the same places the rest of us get our wealth* of information. Berenia adds value to this forum, though, because she brings a woman's perspective. (I suppose I should say, Berenia appears to be a woman.)

*Such as it is.

 

[Custer Laststand]

Marital happiness vs. number of wife's lovers

Berenia,

Wife-sharing should involve at least three lovers for the wife.... ....This makes the marriage stronger because the wife is much happier and [more fully] satiated.

That's an interesting assertion. Obviously, a [statistically valid, of course] survey should be carried out and properly analyzed to ascertain the happiness of married women as a function of the mean number of their lovers over some suitable period of time (say, 3 to 5 years). I say "mean" because sexually-active married women may have lovers varying, from time-to-time, from something like 2 to 4, while wives who are "one man women" may have 1 long-term lover, whom they fuck while denying intercourse to their husbands (while, perhaps, queening them). But are they necessarily less happy... or is "quantity of lovers required for satisfaction" a function of personality and innate sexuality?

—Custer

 

[Son of John]

Impotence

There are three basic types of male impotence. "Primary Impotence" is when the guy can't get it up! He is excited, and he wants to fuck, but his "equipment" has failed him. This is usually a psychological situation, because he may still have morning erections, but they quickly go away as soon as he is awake.

This condition is humiliating for a man who has a woman to fuck, because she will usually think it is her fault because he is not turned on enough to fuck her.

The second is "Premature Ejaculation" in which a man can get a hard-on and starts to fuck, but he "cums" too quickly and leaves the woman he is fucking unsatisfied. Again, this is embarrassing for the man, and frustrating for the woman.

One of the prescribed therapies for PE is for the man to jack-off just before he goes to meet the woman he is hoping to fuck. That way he can delay a second orgasm for a longer period.

And the third is "Ejaculatory Incompetence" which is being discussed here.

So, what type do you have?

 

[marys_pet]

it's all good

Berenia,



That's an interesting assertion. Obviously, a [statistically valid, of course] survey should be carried out and properly analyzed to ascertain the happiness of married women as a function of the mean number of their lovers over some suitable period of time (say, 3 to 5 years). I say "mean" because sexually-active married women may have lovers varying, from time-to-time, from something like 2 to 4, while wives who are "one man women" may have 1 long-term lover, whom they fuck while denying intercourse to their husbands (while, perhaps, queening them). But are they necessarily less happy... or is "quantity of lovers required for satisfaction" a function of personality and innate sexuality?

—Custer

Sometimes I think Berenia posts things just to provoke a reaction, but I've also seen her offer some very good advice, and she does add a valuable female perspective here. All in all I think she's a net asset to the forum, despite her tendency to sometimes run off the deep end simply because she can.

 

[Joe434]

is this real?

 

[opencouple]

I appreciate there is a lot of fantasy (and some reality I hope) on the site and its all good, everyone comes looking for something to make them smile and hopefully they leave happy. As for this thread I must say that I can fuck like a steam train for hours with no end in sight, but as soon as my wife starts to tell me about the fun she has with her 'friends' then i cum in seconds.

 

[DickMann]

if u r on this site --->you probably jack off too much

if u jack off too much---> your scrotum is not ideally primed (maximally full of cum) for ejaculation

if your scrotum is not ideally primed for ejaculation (not maximally full of cum)--->the force with which your cum "wants" to exit your dick will be below ideal

if the force with which your cum "wants" to exit your dick is below ideal--->you will experience less satisfying orgasms, or possibly none at all

if you deal with this problem by jacking off even more, "as practice"--->you worsen the problem

solution:
1. harness your orgastic force by abstaining from all orgasms and masturbation for 1 week
2. "break the fast" with another person, and cum very quickly
2.

 

[mincercuck]

I wonder how many wife-sharing men suffer from a form of impotence, called "Ejaculatory Incompetence", which really means they have trouble cumming. These men usually have great difficulty getting-off under any but the most exciting circumstances.

Most men with EI, for instance, cannot easily cum while fucking their wives. No matter how excited they may be, or how badly they want to cum in her pussy, it is still difficult unless something "extra" is added to the experience.

For many, that something extra is having another man there to fuck her while the husband watches. In nearly all these cases, the husband has no trouble fucking his wife and cumming in her pussy after another man has just done so. These men usually report that it is very stimulating to stick their dick-heads into a well of cum left behind by another man, inside their own wives' pussies!

I have discussed wife-sharing with many different men and I have seldom talked with any man who claimed that he could not cum in her cunt after having watched another man fuck her.

This fact alone is enough to support the practice of wife-sharing becuase it allows the husband to "perform" in a way that he could not otherwise. Not only are they able to cum whereas they might not be able to do so otherwise, but they also report that their orgasms are much more intense and enjoyable, simply because this other man has fucked the wife first.

Yeah,stick your dick in another man's cum in your wife,and we all go away happy with a nice little rash around our dicks. BULLSHIT

 

[for_fun_and_games]

Me too

I do have this problem. I have had it since I started fucking as a teenager. I didn't know there was a name for it. My wife and I joke about, since often times she will cum and I won't when we fuck. I am also a cuck, so I am not sure what the connection is, but I have been addicted to the extra excitement I get from being a cuck for quite some time.

 

[Harry2614]

Ejaculatory Imcompetence

I also have this problem. It always turned up for me with every new relationship for a while until we got used to each other, Then all was OK.
Lately, my wife has expressed a lack of interest so the problem has come back on me.
I can still get an erection solo, and ejaculate with masturbation, I can still have sex with my wife (she is accomidating) but will not ejaculate and after a while my erection will fade not to come back till next time.
I have tried other women, but that puts me back to the 'new relationship' position. At least I have been able to satisfy them which keeps my interest.
BTW, Viagra helps maintain the erection, but does not help the ejaculation.

 

[austin30s_mwm]

I also have this problem. It always turned up for me with every new relationship for a while until we got used to each other, Then all was OK.
Lately, my wife has expressed a lack of interest so the problem has come back on me.
I can still get an erection solo, and ejaculate with masturbation, I can still have sex with my wife (she is accomidating) but will not ejaculate and after a while my erection will fade not to come back till next time.
I have tried other women, but that puts me back to the 'new relationship' position. At least I have been able to satisfy them which keeps my interest.
BTW, Viagra helps maintain the erection, but does not help the ejaculation.

This sounds extremely similar to my situation!