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[The Grinch]

I found this site awhile ago, it deals with polyamory, which in a way is a very fancy word for what cuckolding is.
Polyamory is defined as "the practice, desire, or acceptance of having more than one loving, intimate relationship at a time with the full knowledge and free consent of everyone involved"
Take a look.
It might help.
It will definity inform.


http://www.xeromag.com/fvpoly.html

 

[deniedhubby]

it deals with polyamory, which in a way is a very fancy word for what cuckolding is.



http://www.xeromag.com/fvpoly.html

You are so, so, wrong. Where as there may be many "poly" aspects in a cuck relation...it is however nothing at all like cuckolding. Good link for polyamory, however.

 

[Harry2614]

Polyamory

No! not at all like 'Cuckolding'. Polyamory is a lifestyle of it's own where sexual sharing is without restriction and available to all involved. I will look at the site recommended.
Here is another that I know of in the Phx. Az. area: Contents Polyamory

Harry

 

[Harry2614]

Polyamory

BTW, the 'Liberated Christian' web site also includes a link to the group: the 'Arizona Stroking Community' THE STROKING COMMUNITY which I am the leader of. Basically we do massage in a nude environment with 3-4 people per table

 

[carina_halerose]

If your wife has only one lover then it is a poly cuck relationship

 

[Troilusand]

I agree with the dissenters that polyamory is one thing and cuckoldry another, but...they can overlap. From what I've read (not a ton) of Grinch's posts, he and I are poly-cucks. AND WE NEED OUR OWN WEBSITE!! Seriously, I think The Grinch is trying to come to grips with his wife giving her heart to boyfriends, not just her pussy. It can be quite disconcerting when you know that you have no say in whether your wife fux other guys (as we cux all know), and then you add in she falls in love with them, well! These aren't fuck buddies, they're lovers.

I don't feel the angst that Grinch does because my wife's had a FEW long term lovers during our marriage, and has always reassured me that even if she loves him MORE, she loves me BEST; if that makes any sense to you. And I can relate because I know I can love more than just her, also.

So that takes care of the poly, now the cuck. I have always enjoyed my wife's infidelities--more of her long term lovers were from early in our marriage when she cheated than since she's had permission. I was angry/jealous back then; but turned on as hell. Deep down I liked being married to a woman that would risk divorce to satisfy her need for men. Eventually our marriage got more honest and happier, and I encouraged her to take on lovers.

Being in love makes her happy, so I'm all for it for her sake (the loving poly-sharing side); but for me, since they do fall in love, I take the risk of losing her to another man, and that risk thrills me (the cuckold side). I know her leaving will never happen...but it could. And by the way, hearing my wife tell another man how much she loves him is the biggest cuckold thrill there is. Try it sometime.

T.

 

[Troilusand]

G, you said, "having to share your wife's love as well as her body is both a gift and a curse." I get the impression it's still more of a curse for you. Hang in there.

From your posts, I gather you came to the poly side of your life reluctantly; is that also true for the hotwife side of things? How did you two start?

T.

 

[Troilusand]

Grinch ... no words could be truer said. Women and men usually think totally different about sexual relationships, and its more likely women will look for ( and desire) more than just the sexual aspect of the relationship. Encouraging your wife to open up to numerous sexual relationships is taking a big chance in opening up Pandora's Box.

Women really are a bit more complicated to figure out than men.
Mac

Mac, loved the Pic!! Still laughing. And for all the wannabes out there, Grinch's quote is sooo true. Like the margins of pirate maps of yore, these cuckold websites should read, "Beyond lies beasties and monsters!!" But that only enticed the more adventurous sailors to explore. Ship awhore!

T.