whats good for the goose
may not be good for the gander.....
Look im what u all call a BBC, but I'm no homewrecker. It may sound hypocritical from me ..for yes, I have been with cheaters like you, and also couples. But just cause you are cheating on your husband...and why cant you be honest with him, and must hide it? why cant you try and get him involved in the lifestyle??? Does that make it right to do the same with you're so called friend? If she is you're friend, don't she deserve some honesty? Maybe she is happy with her marriage and doesnt need you meddling in her business...At the same time, maybe you in the end will be doing her a great favor/service...guess what bothers me is all you married peoples' lack of conviction and honesty with each other. guess i just needed to vent.