Mr. Smithy,
mrsmithy said:
However, there have been two occasions where I think something might have happened and she may have had a one night stand. Both were when she went out with friends to nightclubs - once where she didn't come home until the next morning...
Your wife going out to a night club without you, dressed sexy, and not coming home 'til the next morning is high-quality (although indirect) evidence she spent the night fucking another man.
Admitting she was in a cab dressed hot with another man is of less interest, I would say, than where the two of them were going. Was it to his place? A hotel? On that occasion, did your wife also not come home 'til the next morning?
mrsmithy said:
I'd love to know if anything did happen either time... it's such a huge fantasy of mine.
Well, you need to begin talking with your wife about her going out on dates (as she did) without you, and how hot you think that was, and how you masturbated repeatedly while she was out (tell her that even if [implausibly] you didn't jack off to thoughts about her) thinking about what she may have been doing. Do this in a non-threatening setting... say, while the two of you are having coffee together on a weekend morning... or talk to her in this way, in a low husky voice, as part of your foreplay to turn her on when the two of you are in bed together. Then, note carefully how she begins to respond, and whether she appears to be trying to decide, momentarily, whether to tell you the truth. If it doesn't upset her, encourage her by continuing in your low, sexy voice... "c'mon, baby, tell me... I want you to have sexual adventures with other men and tell me about them... just the thought of it makes me so hot I can hardly stand it... c'mon, tell me, baby..." (or words along those lines).
mrsmithy said:
So, two things: 1) I'd love to hear someone claim that they had been with my wife...
Hm... I suppose I could tell you I spent a night, indeed many nights with your wife, if that would help, but unfortunately it wouldn't be true.
mrsmithy said:
2) How have other people elicited that information from their partner?
It seems widely agreed that a fundamentally-important aspect of a husband persuading his wife not only to fuck other men, but also to become comfortable with doing so and with telling him about it afterwards, is to convince her this isn't just a trick to provide him with an excuse to pursue and fuck other women. Generally speaking, the traffic on this forum over time suggests, I would say, that potential hotwives — even if they're secretly attracted to the idea of fucking other men — tend to be strongly opposed to idea of their husbands fucking other women. You're her husband and (almost certainly) she wants you to stay that way. Thus, one of the keys may be convincing your wife you don't have ulterior motives of this nature. In fact, convincing her you want it to be her privilege and prerogative to date and fuck whomever she pleases, while your authentic desire is to remain faithful to her as her cuckold, may be the most important key.
mrsmithy said:
I've posted a few pics of her. Her name is Kelly.
Your wife Kelly is a *very* sensuous-looking woman with a beautifully-sexual face and bedroom eyes (dilated pupils => sexual desire). She is obviously turned on by being photographed in semi-nude highly-sexual poses wearing provocative clothing. If you were her photographer, this implies she was intensely turned on by you as you posed her. All this suggests she has outstanding potential for increasing her marital stature by stepping up, stepping out and taking lovers, thus making you her cuckold. It will become her... her woman friends will be envious. And you can tell her I said so.
—Custer
