Take a lover on your honeymoon so you can have double the fun. Let the lover have first go at the bride's pussy on the wedding night, and hubby can have the first creampie of the marriage.
Regarding other guys ringing bells you can't, it is important for a lady to max her orgasms, and encouraging your wife to be in the arms of other men always has risks you might lose her.
But men take risks in war dodging bullets and most come back again. If you worry too much about the risk of losing your wife to a better cock, then you probably will be the type that does not get out of bed on Black Friday the 13th.
The more you worry, the more chance she will run off with another man, because the laws of physics say that what you worry about will come true as sure as your Fairy Godmother waving her magical wand. Worry sets up a powerful vibration like a muscial tuning fork, and this vibration is like a magnet and pulls your worst fears towards you.
Worry = wish. The stronger your worry, the harder your vibrations will push your wife out of the marriage.
When the girl you love goes out on dates, wish for her to have a wonderful time everytime she goes, because that proves you love her truly care about her.
If your wife runs away, it just means she was not happy enough with you (and was hiding it from you so as to not hurt your feelings) or she had got married far too young before she realised what the opportunities were for her to have fun in life.
You can be in love many times, and if love runs away, another door will open for you if you keep a smiley face and let the past slip out of your life and new love slip into the space created.
Don't pull a broken marriage along like a sack of spuds on your shoulders. Don't try to point any blame. Just say, thankyou for the good times, then turn your back so your eyes can no longer see it.
Create a space for new love to find you - remember than a new lady does not want to hear about all the problems of your old marriage - all she wants to know is whether your mind wants to be with her 24/7.
Don't keep visiting old pages from your Book of Life. Cellotape the old pages so you can't turn back, then open a fresh page to record all the nice things that you and your new love are doing together. Nothing can damage a new relationship faster than a guy who can't stop trying to fix old problems.