@RobCuckToKaren it is good to hear that you, Karen and Obi are all doing well. Good luck
RobCuckToKaren said:After we'd had our kids, [my wife] Karen told me that since we didn't want any more, there was no need for her to do it with me again....
RobCuckToKaren said:.... then, she showed me an advert she'd put in a contact magazine. I could see the naked photo was her....
RobCuckToKaren said:After I read she was a married women looking for black guys to have sex with, I knew she must have found my hidden porn stash.
RobCuckToKaren said:[My wife] told me that looking at my IR and cuckold magazines and videos had made [her] obsessed with the idea of doing it with black guys. Since I seemed to be too shy to talk about my fantasy, she decided to take matters into her own hands....
RobCuckToKaren said:To be honest....
RobCuckToKaren said:....it suited me perfectly, because I'd found it humiliating to always have a premature ejaculation. Even though my wife told me not to worry, I knew she must not be enjoying it. It was something I was too embarrassed to talk about. So, for Karen to force my hand was the best thing that could have happened. As much as I liked the porn, knowing that [my] own wife is being fucked by black guys and being occasionally allowed to watch it is much more exciting. It's something I never tire of thinking about when I wank.
Custer Laststand said:Ouch....
Your wife was unusually straightforward with you....
The saying, "Be careful what you wish for, you might get it" comes to mind. (In any case, you should have known a married woman always knows what's going on in her own home.)
.... or pussy, one might say. In either case, that's perfect. I like it.
Here in the U.S., there's another homily: "Honesty is the best policy." It may be the most widely-scorned folk-wisdom nation-wide, as evidenced by the election (or so we're told) of our current president.
Very good. Beating your weenie.... or wanking, as you call it in the U.K. .... while thinking about what your sexy wife Karen might be doing with her hot young black lovers.... is totally appropriate for you, in your marital role as her cuckold. That is, when Ms. Karen is kind enough to unlock your chastity device before going out on a date.
RobCuckToKaren said:Despite or perhaps because of my failings in the bedroom we were and still are very much in love and devoted to each other. ..... etc .....
gatorrdw said:..... [My wife] started, [or so I thought,] at a New Years Eve party and I did get to watch. I didn't find out until months later that she had been sexually involved with the divorced next door neighbor beside her home before and after we were married. ..... —GTR
iLuvDeb said:I learned for the first time my wife had been unfaithful almost 20 years ago. I'm ashamed to admit how badly I took it. I was the classic jealous husband. All I can say is I was a lot younger and a lot more insecure. I made a HUGE deal of it. Sorry, Honey.
So...a couple of years later Deb was VERY upset when she admitted to me that she was attracted to her then boss. Nothing had happened yet, but he had taken her to lunch several times and was hitting on her regularly at work. I was surprised, but I had secretly been fantasizing about her and her former lover when we made love for years!
I asked her straight out: "Do you want to leave me for him?" She replied, "No! I just don't know what to do! I don't want to quit this job and it's getting harder to tell him no!"
I said, "Well...let's stay together and you just see where it goes with him." You should have seen her face!
Long story short, Deb began going out to dinner with her then boss after work, instead of coming straight home, once or twice a week. Deb was VERY nervous about the situation, especially after they began going to a motel after dinner to sleep together, but was thrilled by al the attention!
It was sometimes nine or ten before she got home from "work". The first night the kids were out of the house, I met her at the door, gave her a big kiss, and led her to our bedroom. "Let me get a quick shower!" she said. "I've been with him..."
"I know..." I said and blocked her from leaving the room. Knowing what she had just done with another man drove me wild! It was maybe the best sex of my life! Afterwards, lying in bed with her, Deb said "I can't believe I slept with both of you in one night!" We were hooked! Both of us!
Thank you! It's refreshing and encouraging to share with people who understand!GaryCaste said:Fantastic, I'm so pleased that you stayed together and that you have lovingly accepted and allowed your Wife to flourish, I'm envious, and would too have blocked the door so powerfully desiring to experience what you did, splendid, and thank you so much for sharing