Hi Ms. Lacostelacoste,
lacostelacoste said:
Just because i did bad things when i was single...
If by "bad things" you mean you were highly sexual and expressed your high sex drive by fucking lots of men, no one should call you "bad" for that reason. You should certainly not think of yourself as "bad." It just means you were a normal healthy woman with a healthy sex drive. Almost certainly, you still are. Having sex frequently with whomever you wanted was your right and privilege as a single woman.
lacostelacoste said:
...does that mean [my husband] gets to tell me I am a ho now?
Absolutely not. No man ever has the "right" to call his wife, woman friend or any other woman a "ho" or any other derogatory names because she has acted on her sexuality, either in the past, the present, or both. If your husband calls you a "ho" or derogatory names of any other kind, that's abuse. You have every right to demand respect from him. Among men, what he's saying to you would be considered fighting words.
lacostelacoste said:
So what if my pussy is loose....
You have it right. "So what" is exactly the right way to view how loose or tight your pussy is. There are lots of men who consider it a sexual turn-on if their wife or woman-friend has a loose pussy, suggesting she fucks men with big cocks (even if she doesn't do that; her pussy is just naturally loose). You'll find some of them if you spend some time reading-around on this forum.
The photo you posted that shows more of you suggests you're quite an attractive woman. Have you considered posting more photos showing most of you in enticing poses (not just your pussy)...? You could turn your head so your hair hides your face, if you prefer not showing your face...
Be proud of your sexuality! You're completely normal. Don't let your husband or any other man put you down.
—Custer