I'm now 62 and could use some advice.
I'm still single, do Airbnb occasionally (as the host), have had a partial stroke, many surgeries (with more to come), and about to meet a young Asian woman, who might be my first bride.
She's 23 (or 24) and I'm 62.
Up till a few years ago I was masturbating regularly once to three times a day, sometimes five times a day. And yes, as I got into my fifties it took longer and longer each time. Now that I'm over 60 the faucet has almost completely turned off. Not only have I not cum since about a month or two ago, but I can't even seem to maintain an erection for more than a minute. But the desire, the horniness, the interest in sex and all things sexy, filthy, in my mind, has not let up!
It's not only driving me crazy, but I'm also worried about, ... what if she's the one!?
I might drop in to see my GP. See what he's got to say. I take high blood pressure meds, and anti cholesterol meds. And he's been talking about raising my high blood pressure meds again. As I've had severe osteo arthritis on one toe and meniscus problems on the other knee. So less jogging and walking, and weight gain.
This aging bullshit is coming on at the WRONG FUCKING TIME! I just need it to go away, leave me able to get hard and ejaculate regularly for another 60 years or so.
The alternative may be that I may not only be an eligible cuck, but a no-choice cuck. I know I would want her to be happy and contented. But at the same time I don't want her to risk it with other men. STD's, falling for another guy and DIVORCE, weird, stupid, violent or sociopathic stalker men, etc.
I may also hit the interwebs and see what they have to say. I think Viagra is NOT a solution but a can of worms. I wonder why I'm unable to stay hard any more? 62 And heart surgery (late Feb 2024), gall bladder extrication (early Feb 2024), and hernia surgery (coming up) can't be the reasons. I think it's just aging. And maybe some fear of performance? Damn! I only need to maintain regular erections (and subsequent ejaculations) only for another ~ 60 years! I think after that I can excuse myself.
Any suggestions?
I'm still single, do Airbnb occasionally (as the host), have had a partial stroke, many surgeries (with more to come), and about to meet a young Asian woman, who might be my first bride.
She's 23 (or 24) and I'm 62.
Up till a few years ago I was masturbating regularly once to three times a day, sometimes five times a day. And yes, as I got into my fifties it took longer and longer each time. Now that I'm over 60 the faucet has almost completely turned off. Not only have I not cum since about a month or two ago, but I can't even seem to maintain an erection for more than a minute. But the desire, the horniness, the interest in sex and all things sexy, filthy, in my mind, has not let up!
It's not only driving me crazy, but I'm also worried about, ... what if she's the one!?
I might drop in to see my GP. See what he's got to say. I take high blood pressure meds, and anti cholesterol meds. And he's been talking about raising my high blood pressure meds again. As I've had severe osteo arthritis on one toe and meniscus problems on the other knee. So less jogging and walking, and weight gain.
This aging bullshit is coming on at the WRONG FUCKING TIME! I just need it to go away, leave me able to get hard and ejaculate regularly for another 60 years or so.
The alternative may be that I may not only be an eligible cuck, but a no-choice cuck. I know I would want her to be happy and contented. But at the same time I don't want her to risk it with other men. STD's, falling for another guy and DIVORCE, weird, stupid, violent or sociopathic stalker men, etc.
I may also hit the interwebs and see what they have to say. I think Viagra is NOT a solution but a can of worms. I wonder why I'm unable to stay hard any more? 62 And heart surgery (late Feb 2024), gall bladder extrication (early Feb 2024), and hernia surgery (coming up) can't be the reasons. I think it's just aging. And maybe some fear of performance? Damn! I only need to maintain regular erections (and subsequent ejaculations) only for another ~ 60 years! I think after that I can excuse myself.
Any suggestions?