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How to get your wife to cuckold you - your ideas?
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NostalgicCuck said:
This is the exact thing i told my wife when she started asking about what things would turn me on. I told her it was hot to be the one to have her at the end of the night, but of course it was because I wanted to see her get worked up from other men.
She bought a vibrator I could control thru app, and this was what we were going to do with it, i thought what better way to get her to lose herself and do something stupid.
I never saw her as the sharing or cheating type, has had past trauma from bad relationships and claims that type of thing would never happen, but the moment I broke the ice about it, she was talking about hot men the very next day. I couldn't handle it happening that fast, and I made a bit of a big deal about it even tho its what I wanted. That definitely put a damper on it and it hasnt been brought up since, but there's no way she forgets.
I think its true, any woman is going to be all about cucking, just have to break the ice somehow.
Had a bit of breakthrough last night, I have been asking wife to use a vibrator on herself for a while now while I jerk off over her tits as I grope them, watching her squirm and moan to an orgasm, last night she asked me why I like her to use a vibe on herself, & I said it was a massive turn on to see her getting pleasured, I said, id love to watch her use the dildo on herself at the same time as the vibrator while I watched, she was really turned on and said its so good that you like that, we got down to it and I came on her tits as she came, baby steps, but I think we are getting there, once the dildo is part of the mix I think the idea will become obvious to her! any thoughts or advice here would be welcomed!!
Continue on doing that for awhile, then tell her you want to watch her getting fucked or imagining another man fucking her while you were away. Maybe use the dildo on her, from behind or from the front and attach a name to it "Peter" or some such. If you can get her to talk about an attractive man she knows or even a celebrity, better.deanford said:
hi guys,
i succeeded in convincing my wife so i thought i would try and help you out, fulfilling your dreams of cuckolding. now, if your wife is leading the charge and dropping hints about sharing herself, then this is not for you. this is when you are the cuckold wannbe.
first, the impt question is whether she is able to fantasise. this is never an easy question to answer as it involves many factors. most impt of which is whether she IS ABLE to at the very least, fantasise with you about being a hotwife. THIS IS KEY.
if she has not, then it is a harder hill to climb.
1. there are some things that you must first learn - patience and persistence. these are your tools to help you achieve this.
2. never push her. you must be very very patient in getting your fantasy to be a reality. always let her think she is in control of it. this means that if she does not want to talk or fantasise anymore, stop. respect her wishes. start again another time. but be persistent. she will give in eventually.
this is a slow and steady process and your Mrs MUST always have the feeling that she is in control. ALWAYS! This reassures her that should she want to stop, IT WILL BE STOPPED. only then will she trust you.
3. AGAIN REMEMBER that the focus here is your wife. not you and what you desire her to do for you (please understand this as they will learn the truth).
this was one of the methods i used on my wife......
my mrs loves to suck cock. she really loves it as she can go for an hour or more just sucking on one. and you will only enjoy having your cock sucked IF the person sucking enjoys what she is doing. i should know this as im her hubby. she loves to swallow too. and not the porn you watch type where they spit it out! she love to taste it and swallow (i suppose this was the thing that turned me bi too as i loved watching her do it so much that i too got hooked).
so during my convincing her to join a swing party, i bought a vibrator and when she was sucking my cock, i used the vibrator on her. now when she sucks she is in heaven and then applying the vibe on her pussy was the ultimate for her. i used that moment to fantasise that it was a mutual friends. an american guy that we knew (she is partial to orang putih). this method me a great deal in convincing her that another cock or cocks would be great in our sex life. so i did this time and time again. this was the persistent part. as long as she likes sex, half the battle is won.
about 4th month - the reluctance soon gave way. and she began to allow me to talk to her about a third person.
about 8th month - then i began to ask her things. and she answered!!
with this i knew i was doing the right things.
10th month - while having sex SHE asked for the vibrator.
after a year of some hard work she finally agreed to join in a swing party. and the rest is history. this was the patience part.
she enjoyed herself at the party. and it was enjoyable to watch her too.
so keep plugging at it. always remember that the focus is on her. not you.
we began with swinging, then moved gradually (as my cuckold side began to emerge) to threesomes and finally cuckolding. this is something i really enjoy. i especially watching the action up close (like in fucklicking) as it is so intoxicating.
as i noted, patience, persistence, and non-pushy.
secondly, compliment her dressing, her beauty, her sexiness. and do it truthfully. women can tell if you are bull-shitting or theres something behind the compliments.
send her flowers, chocolates at her workplace. let her feel proud in front of her friends, family.
this is an entire package of things you need to do. men are different. we only want 1 thing. with women it takes many things. and your heart.
i honestly did all these things to convince, cajole and encourage my wife. it took me more than a year before she agreed to join me in a swing party. happiest moment of my life.
rushing into cuckolding
sharing your wife is already a big step. getting her to cuckold you is even greater. so consider taking this one step at a time.
my advice to you is to leave out the cuckolding part of it for now. That will come later. Currently you are only focused on your needs which is for her to cuckold you.
So leave that part out for now. instead, focus on HER PLEASURES. make sure she reaches new heights, better climaxes and mind-blowing pleasures. Get her more involved in the sex. Introduce a dildo, if you have not already. Then show her 3some porn - mmf, orgies, gbs where there are more men than women. This will engage her curiosity about having more than one cock.
but always keep these in mind - persistence, patience, non-pushy.
this is all a plan.....as once she starts experiencing all these new things, your sex life will change and then you slowly bring cuckolding into place. so your time will come my friend.
that will be the ultimate. her her the tools. and then fuck her with it, while watching a nice cuckold porn movie. find out who she likes to fuck her.colleague, neighbour, friend etc.then introduce the vibrator as the person. in her pussy or mouth while your cock does the free hole.your wish to be cuckolded will come (cum??) true.
because one day when you see a large hard cock plunging in and out of your wifes pussy, and juices spurting everywhere, the wonderful squishing sounds the aroma wafting into your nose as you watch this up close then you know your time has come. and it is just fucking erotic. we had so many wonderful experiences.
i know. as i followed this path and it was successful.
dan
i succeeded in convincing my wife so i thought i would try and help you out, fulfilling your dreams of cuckolding. now, if your wife is leading the charge and dropping hints about sharing herself, then this is not for you. this is when you are the cuckold wannbe.
first, the impt question is whether she is able to fantasise. this is never an easy question to answer as it involves many factors. most impt of which is whether she IS ABLE to at the very least, fantasise with you about being a hotwife. THIS IS KEY.
if she has not, then it is a harder hill to climb.
1. there are some things that you must first learn - patience and persistence. these are your tools to help you achieve this.
2. never push her. you must be very very patient in getting your fantasy to be a reality. always let her think she is in control of it. this means that if she does not want to talk or fantasise anymore, stop. respect her wishes. start again another time. but be persistent. she will give in eventually.
this is a slow and steady process and your Mrs MUST always have the feeling that she is in control. ALWAYS! This reassures her that should she want to stop, IT WILL BE STOPPED. only then will she trust you.
3. AGAIN REMEMBER that the focus here is your wife. not you and what you desire her to do for you (please understand this as they will learn the truth).
this was one of the methods i used on my wife......
my mrs loves to suck cock. she really loves it as she can go for an hour or more just sucking on one. and you will only enjoy having your cock sucked IF the person sucking enjoys what she is doing. i should know this as im her hubby. she loves to swallow too. and not the porn you watch type where they spit it out! she love to taste it and swallow (i suppose this was the thing that turned me bi too as i loved watching her do it so much that i too got hooked).
so during my convincing her to join a swing party, i bought a vibrator and when she was sucking my cock, i used the vibrator on her. now when she sucks she is in heaven and then applying the vibe on her pussy was the ultimate for her. i used that moment to fantasise that it was a mutual friends. an american guy that we knew (she is partial to orang putih). this method me a great deal in convincing her that another cock or cocks would be great in our sex life. so i did this time and time again. this was the persistent part. as long as she likes sex, half the battle is won.
about 4th month - the reluctance soon gave way. and she began to allow me to talk to her about a third person.
about 8th month - then i began to ask her things. and she answered!!
with this i knew i was doing the right things.
10th month - while having sex SHE asked for the vibrator.
after a year of some hard work she finally agreed to join in a swing party. and the rest is history. this was the patience part.
she enjoyed herself at the party. and it was enjoyable to watch her too.
so keep plugging at it. always remember that the focus is on her. not you.
we began with swinging, then moved gradually (as my cuckold side began to emerge) to threesomes and finally cuckolding. this is something i really enjoy. i especially watching the action up close (like in fucklicking) as it is so intoxicating.
as i noted, patience, persistence, and non-pushy.
secondly, compliment her dressing, her beauty, her sexiness. and do it truthfully. women can tell if you are bull-shitting or theres something behind the compliments.
send her flowers, chocolates at her workplace. let her feel proud in front of her friends, family.
this is an entire package of things you need to do. men are different. we only want 1 thing. with women it takes many things. and your heart.
i honestly did all these things to convince, cajole and encourage my wife. it took me more than a year before she agreed to join me in a swing party. happiest moment of my life.
rushing into cuckolding
sharing your wife is already a big step. getting her to cuckold you is even greater. so consider taking this one step at a time.
my advice to you is to leave out the cuckolding part of it for now. That will come later. Currently you are only focused on your needs which is for her to cuckold you.
So leave that part out for now. instead, focus on HER PLEASURES. make sure she reaches new heights, better climaxes and mind-blowing pleasures. Get her more involved in the sex. Introduce a dildo, if you have not already. Then show her 3some porn - mmf, orgies, gbs where there are more men than women. This will engage her curiosity about having more than one cock.
but always keep these in mind - persistence, patience, non-pushy.
this is all a plan.....as once she starts experiencing all these new things, your sex life will change and then you slowly bring cuckolding into place. so your time will come my friend.
that will be the ultimate. her her the tools. and then fuck her with it, while watching a nice cuckold porn movie. find out who she likes to fuck her.colleague, neighbour, friend etc.then introduce the vibrator as the person. in her pussy or mouth while your cock does the free hole.your wish to be cuckolded will come (cum??) true.
because one day when you see a large hard cock plunging in and out of your wifes pussy, and juices spurting everywhere, the wonderful squishing sounds the aroma wafting into your nose as you watch this up close then you know your time has come. and it is just fucking erotic. we had so many wonderful experiences.
i know. as i followed this path and it was successful.
dan
My wife used to like to go out to the clubs in the city One particular club was known for being mostly blacks, men and white women.
The first night she went there she was picked up by two younger man, who took turns fucking in the back of his SUV. Afterwards she kept going back to the club, where the head bouncer a big black man got friendly with her and started to fuck her
she well known in that club as a slut for black cocks.
she will give blowjobs underneath the table on the dance floor They will feel her up.
Lots of times the bouncer would take her to the bathroom and fuck her and have other guys fuck her when she got home she was always soaking wet with cum in her cunt ass on her hair and tell me all about it in details as we fucked afterwards.
she started hooking up with a EMT guy he was Jamaican very muscular he would fuck her at work and afterwards she would go home with him then come back home to me. Sometimes he will have his friends over to gangbanger. He got into giving her a golden showers with his friends. She loved it she loves to please bbc
That started 21 yrs.
Today she doesn’t play around too much. The last time was on Cruise. Two years ago with young black guys they fuck her every day or night of the cruise.
The first night she went there she was picked up by two younger man, who took turns fucking in the back of his SUV. Afterwards she kept going back to the club, where the head bouncer a big black man got friendly with her and started to fuck her
she well known in that club as a slut for black cocks.
she will give blowjobs underneath the table on the dance floor They will feel her up.
Lots of times the bouncer would take her to the bathroom and fuck her and have other guys fuck her when she got home she was always soaking wet with cum in her cunt ass on her hair and tell me all about it in details as we fucked afterwards.
she started hooking up with a EMT guy he was Jamaican very muscular he would fuck her at work and afterwards she would go home with him then come back home to me. Sometimes he will have his friends over to gangbanger. He got into giving her a golden showers with his friends. She loved it she loves to please bbc
That started 21 yrs.
Today she doesn’t play around too much. The last time was on Cruise. Two years ago with young black guys they fuck her every day or night of the cruise.
I took it slow. Started talking to her about sexual things. Began by asking her what she did with her old boyfriends. We both got so turned on as she told me! Slowly we started sharing sexual fantasy and role playing her with another guy, played by me! She always loved it when as I fucked her I would say” you like my dick better than your husband’s dick don’t you”. She always replied yes! It took almost two year for her to actually take her first dick from another man but after she did she thanked me for convincing her to do it! After her first stray dick she had such wonderful orgasms she never wanted to stop. I love watching her get fucked by other men!
Looking for a bull to help crack my girl. She is a submissive, cum drinking slut, with a vice grip pussy, when she gets down, but carries herself like an overtly logical, guy’s-girl/tomboy, unobtainable prude, in public. She loves fit alpha males, of any race, and has cheated with a BBC-packing friend of her’s, before. I have attached real pics and this a serious request. Is there anyone that might be able to help get her to either cuck me in-person or at least send pics/vids of her being their personal *****? Bonus points if you can make her become a free and open *****, in general. We are currently residing in Las Vegas. Reply or dm, if so, or if you have any questions.
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Debshusband said:
All these men who have cheating wives. Yes, you may be able to convert her to cuckoldry (where she fucks other men, with your knowledge), but you have to remember, cheating is about her in control. Some like cheating because it gives her more options, and no meddling from you. When it cums to getting fucked, she wants you out of the picture.
She may even enjoy hurting you, without the reprisals. Because you don't or won't know.
There is of course many risks for her, including STD's, and psychotic, abusive, or opportunistic lovers. But these are not much different than when a man is cheating on his wife.
I introduced my wife to lifestyle by asking her if she fantasized about a trio. I then took her on holiday booked a rendezvous hotel with "mirrors on the ceiling"and put an add in the local paper.
Guy came to the the hotel, I blindfolded (ok blindfold came off pretty quick when she felt two guys) my wife, and fucked her with the other guy. She loved it
This was our first time in 2009. We married in 2010 and since then she has fucked or been fucked by 70 guys. Highlight was June 2012 when she fucked 23 guys in a club in Belgium.
Guy came to the the hotel, I blindfolded (ok blindfold came off pretty quick when she felt two guys) my wife, and fucked her with the other guy. She loved it
This was our first time in 2009. We married in 2010 and since then she has fucked or been fucked by 70 guys. Highlight was June 2012 when she fucked 23 guys in a club in Belgium.
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My wife is conservative and always a good girl! Virgin when we married 35 years ago. I started the long process of bring up related subjects slowly and cautiously!
She gave me my first opening because she always complains my dick too big for her. So one night after we fucked and she complained I asked her if the idea had ever entered her mind about trying a different dick to see if it felt better? She immediately said yes! I was surprised! She then quickly qualified it say but I don’t know if I could really ever do it!
I asked why? She said it just not right! I responded again why? She said accident should not cheat on her husband! I said is it really cheating if the husband knows and agrees it’s ok? She just gave me a blank look! I said I just wondered if you ever thought about it since you alway complain that I’m too big and you can’t finish! A good husband want his wife to enjoy sex and have mind blowing orgasms. I sure want that for you!
It got her thinking! Next during pillow talk I started teasing her about her steady boyfriend in high school. They dated 4 years so I’m sure they got at least into heavy petting! She always told me she was saving herself for marriage so we never fuck until our wedding night! Just befor we arrived at our honeymoon resort she looked at me seriously and said. You know I was very active in sports in college. I replied yes. She said they cay sports can cause you cherry to break so I’m worried I might not have a cherry for you tonight! I was surprised and a little suspicious but said I’m sure you will honey. Well when I fucked her, no cherry! I didn’t even mention it to her but wondered about her old boyfriend!
Well this night I teased her about her old boyfriend and asked her to confess what they had Don in high school. As I suspected she reluctantly told me details of him putting pressure on her for sex and admitted “ they went too far” but he never put it in! We both got so turned on talking about what he did to her that we fucked right after the conversation!
To make a long story short, it too almost two years for me to convince her that I was ok if she wanted to try a different dick and it wasn’t cheating if I knew and approved of it!
The problem of awkwardness of a stranger being with her was solved when I convinced my best friend since high school had a smaller dick and we both were very comfortable with him!
One night after some drinks and lots of sexual teasing, my buddy was her first stay dick since we married! She love his smaller dick and had a screaming orgasm as I sat and watched! She enjoyed it so much I almost felt humilated!
She gave me my first opening because she always complains my dick too big for her. So one night after we fucked and she complained I asked her if the idea had ever entered her mind about trying a different dick to see if it felt better? She immediately said yes! I was surprised! She then quickly qualified it say but I don’t know if I could really ever do it!
I asked why? She said it just not right! I responded again why? She said accident should not cheat on her husband! I said is it really cheating if the husband knows and agrees it’s ok? She just gave me a blank look! I said I just wondered if you ever thought about it since you alway complain that I’m too big and you can’t finish! A good husband want his wife to enjoy sex and have mind blowing orgasms. I sure want that for you!
It got her thinking! Next during pillow talk I started teasing her about her steady boyfriend in high school. They dated 4 years so I’m sure they got at least into heavy petting! She always told me she was saving herself for marriage so we never fuck until our wedding night! Just befor we arrived at our honeymoon resort she looked at me seriously and said. You know I was very active in sports in college. I replied yes. She said they cay sports can cause you cherry to break so I’m worried I might not have a cherry for you tonight! I was surprised and a little suspicious but said I’m sure you will honey. Well when I fucked her, no cherry! I didn’t even mention it to her but wondered about her old boyfriend!
Well this night I teased her about her old boyfriend and asked her to confess what they had Don in high school. As I suspected she reluctantly told me details of him putting pressure on her for sex and admitted “ they went too far” but he never put it in! We both got so turned on talking about what he did to her that we fucked right after the conversation!
To make a long story short, it too almost two years for me to convince her that I was ok if she wanted to try a different dick and it wasn’t cheating if I knew and approved of it!
The problem of awkwardness of a stranger being with her was solved when I convinced my best friend since high school had a smaller dick and we both were very comfortable with him!
One night after some drinks and lots of sexual teasing, my buddy was her first stay dick since we married! She love his smaller dick and had a screaming orgasm as I sat and watched! She enjoyed it so much I almost felt humilated!
I started buying sexy outfits for my Asian hotwife.
Then role playing her fucking other men.
I then set her up with a Caucasian "friend" on her work trip without her knowledge. They ended up banging the whole night.
Since then, she dresses sexily for work meetings and trips without needing my encouragement.
Then role playing her fucking other men.
I then set her up with a Caucasian "friend" on her work trip without her knowledge. They ended up banging the whole night.
Since then, she dresses sexily for work meetings and trips without needing my encouragement.
