How about a muzzle (like the ones used on dogs) retrofit for the wife 24/7 365? And a cane, no thicker than hubby's thumb to keep wifey in line? How about that huh? This fascination with chastity is sado masochistic. I suppose that if all parties are consenting, then whatever. If anyone approached me with one of those things, he, or she better be backing it up with a 50 cal. machine gun.
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- Thread starterJenna
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It is great to have an open forum on this particular fetish. I am guessing that the majority of 'members' are cucks/wannabe's (hereinafter kwanabe's). Not that the full spectrum is not welcome. Purely speculative, but I believe that bulls 'do it, rather than talk about it'. Kwanabe's want to 'read all about it'. If spanking the monkey is mechanically restricted, what is the point of being titillated to begin with? Just shut down the forum altogether. I try to live and let live. I don't like engaging in flame throwing. But the idea of locking it up, leads me to channeling Lewis Black in a tizzy. Bulls and wives should thank their lucky stars every second of every day, that cuckolds even exist. It's almost like the Wall Street bankers and top 1% of wage 'earners' (job creators, so called, 'cause they sure as fuck have not been very creative in the last decades). Nothing is ever enough. You have permission to fuck anyone you please and yet, you want still more!?!
How's it going...?
Hi Ms. Jenna,
It's been 9 days since your last post; i.e.:
How are you doing? Have you managed to make progress?
—Custer
Hi Ms. Jenna,
It's been 9 days since your last post; i.e.:
Jenna said:Well, you guys asked to know about any progress. I convinced my bf to try a chastity device just for some kinky role-play. So, we got him one but he hasn't used it yet. At least, it appears I'll be able to get him in it.
How are you doing? Have you managed to make progress?
—Custer
jenna, my wife ordered it and when the package arrived she just brought it up to me and said lay down and undressed me and she said i am going to put this on you for a while. she tends to be more dominant and i am more sub so i just layed on the bed while she did it. i was a bit caught of guard but she just told me she wanted me to so it happend.
Hi Ms. Jenna,
Thank you for the update!
It sounds like you're moving your boyfriend forward successfully toward where you want him (in his male chastity device full-time,* with maybe one day... or perhaps one-half day... of "freedom" per week, per your desires).
Keep up your good work! And please keep us updated re. how you're doing with him.
—Custer
*Did you shave his pubic hair, or do you find that's unnecessary...?
Thank you for the update!
Jenna said:Hey againYes some progress has been made he has had the device for a couple of days. One day the first time and this would be his second day this time. So far I think things are going pretty good. Not to mention when he has it on I know I won't come home to porn on the living room T.V. lol
It sounds like you're moving your boyfriend forward successfully toward where you want him (in his male chastity device full-time,* with maybe one day... or perhaps one-half day... of "freedom" per week, per your desires).
Keep up your good work! And please keep us updated re. how you're doing with him.
—Custer
*Did you shave his pubic hair, or do you find that's unnecessary...?
I just wonder how you arrived at the point where you wanted to place a chastity device on your BF.
My wife used to wish she could get me to wear one to stop me masturbating while she was at work. Things have changed and I get more sex now. But do you also use it as a denial to yourself? Like, you want to go over and grab your BF cock and have sex but can't because because you promised and put the key in a not-easy-to-reach place?
Or do you get off by him stimulating you with his hand, tongue and dildos while he is still caged? And if so, how is that feeling? Does it heighten your sexual satisfaction knowing that he is caged and dripping pre-cum but can't fully release till you let him?
I know it's gotta be a power trip at the very least. Literally, holding the key to your mans sexual satisfaction.
My wife used to wish she could get me to wear one to stop me masturbating while she was at work. Things have changed and I get more sex now. But do you also use it as a denial to yourself? Like, you want to go over and grab your BF cock and have sex but can't because because you promised and put the key in a not-easy-to-reach place?
Or do you get off by him stimulating you with his hand, tongue and dildos while he is still caged? And if so, how is that feeling? Does it heighten your sexual satisfaction knowing that he is caged and dripping pre-cum but can't fully release till you let him?
I know it's gotta be a power trip at the very least. Literally, holding the key to your mans sexual satisfaction.
Hi Ms. Jenna,
You've made great progress in a reasonably-short amount of time moving your may toward where you want him. That's good! Congratulations!
I hope you're remembering that the fact you're requiring your boyfriend to wear a chastity device, with you his sole key holder, does not in any way imply you should limit your own sexual satisfaction. If you aren't already doing this, you might consider getting him accustomed to being "queened" by you regularly as a means of orally bringing you to orgasm whenever you wish. See:
Queening your man:
The Fine Art of Queening
Queening your boyfriend regularly will move him toward acceptance of you feeding him your cream pies (by queening him) and "cleaning" your pussy with his tongue — thus becoming, in essence, your cuntsucker — when you return from fucking other men, when you begin taking other men as lovers.*
In addition, now that your boyfriend has accepted (for the most part, it sounds like) the concept of you holding the key... literally... to his sexual release, you might also consider bringing him to acknowledge that you are the dominant partner in your relationship, while he is submissive and does things for you that you require (like, for instance, your... soon to be his... housework). A way to accelerate his movement in this direction would be to panty him, such that psychologically he comes to accept that in his relationship with you, you wear the pants and he wears the panties. See, for instance:
Pantying your man:
Making Him Mind, The Transition Begins
—Custer
*As a married woman elsewhere online put it: "If you require your man to wear a chastity device, cuckolding will follow like night follows day."
Jenna said:
You've made great progress in a reasonably-short amount of time moving your may toward where you want him. That's good! Congratulations!
I hope you're remembering that the fact you're requiring your boyfriend to wear a chastity device, with you his sole key holder, does not in any way imply you should limit your own sexual satisfaction. If you aren't already doing this, you might consider getting him accustomed to being "queened" by you regularly as a means of orally bringing you to orgasm whenever you wish. See:
Queening your man:
The Fine Art of Queening
Queening your boyfriend regularly will move him toward acceptance of you feeding him your cream pies (by queening him) and "cleaning" your pussy with his tongue — thus becoming, in essence, your cuntsucker — when you return from fucking other men, when you begin taking other men as lovers.*
In addition, now that your boyfriend has accepted (for the most part, it sounds like) the concept of you holding the key... literally... to his sexual release, you might also consider bringing him to acknowledge that you are the dominant partner in your relationship, while he is submissive and does things for you that you require (like, for instance, your... soon to be his... housework). A way to accelerate his movement in this direction would be to panty him, such that psychologically he comes to accept that in his relationship with you, you wear the pants and he wears the panties. See, for instance:
Pantying your man:
Making Him Mind, The Transition Begins
—Custer
*As a married woman elsewhere online put it: "If you require your man to wear a chastity device, cuckolding will follow like night follows day."
