We often went to the swinger club just have a great time and socialize with others, make new friends and those friends remain friends outside of the club with no pressure of having sex with them. We found that we often would go just to people watch and so I could wear my sexy outfits and wouldn't have to hear from people in a normal bar/night club atmosphere that thought you were dressed to sexy/sluty in public.
These clubs offer a way to get out in the lifestyle, meet people whom are open. You meet plenty of people you only have sex with their significant other. We met a couple that didn't swing that came to the club just to watch me dance on the stripper pole and go home and have incredible sex. Maybe you would love to see your wife dressed in a naughty school girl outfit dancing on stage or on the dance floor while you there and watch and watch others watching her. I hope you find something that works for you. If you were not ready or wanting to play with others I would try the club just for the experience without sexing others unless both of you decided that was what both of you wanted.
These clubs offer a way to get out in the lifestyle, meet people whom are open. You meet plenty of people you only have sex with their significant other. We met a couple that didn't swing that came to the club just to watch me dance on the stripper pole and go home and have incredible sex. Maybe you would love to see your wife dressed in a naughty school girl outfit dancing on stage or on the dance floor while you there and watch and watch others watching her. I hope you find something that works for you. If you were not ready or wanting to play with others I would try the club just for the experience without sexing others unless both of you decided that was what both of you wanted.