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How far should I go with this

  • Thread startersptbj2
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We often went to the swinger club just have a great time and socialize with others, make new friends and those friends remain friends outside of the club with no pressure of having sex with them. We found that we often would go just to people watch and so I could wear my sexy outfits and wouldn't have to hear from people in a normal bar/night club atmosphere that thought you were dressed to sexy/sluty in public.
These clubs offer a way to get out in the lifestyle, meet people whom are open. You meet plenty of people you only have sex with their significant other. We met a couple that didn't swing that came to the club just to watch me dance on the stripper pole and go home and have incredible sex. Maybe you would love to see your wife dressed in a naughty school girl outfit dancing on stage or on the dance floor while you there and watch and watch others watching her. I hope you find something that works for you. If you were not ready or wanting to play with others I would try the club just for the experience without sexing others unless both of you decided that was what both of you wanted.
 
lifelong cuck said:
I'd never be interested in swinging but would enjoy letting my partner do whatever she wished.


Even before I had ever heard the word cuckold, we used to go to the club and April would run around and dance an mingle and play and I would just carry on conversations with other people.

We have met many people in that situation, and I had no idea it had a name,lol. One thing I (and most definately April) like about this site is that feelings or "kinks" we have done/had are somewhat "offbeat" for swingers, but here it is more of the "norm". Thats why you are seeing us come on this site like a flood. :D
 
WOW! Thanks for the great advice everybody. This may be a great idea. Check out a club and get comfortable with the people there. If she wants a little something with another woman or man, so much the better. If not, we would both enjoy talking with open people. Just letting her know that there is absolutely no expectations or pressure to do anything may really work well. We will be in the Phoenix area soon, any recommendations? Thanks again!
 
The only clubs left are Discretions and Encounters, in Phoenix. Maybe take a trip to Vegas and go to the Red Rooster?

Encounters is "mainly" a black after hours dance club that used to be a swingers club. They still have rooms, but no open sex or nudity is allowed anymore. No membership fee. If you are into black males,,,, this can be a fun club. If not, than wont be for you.

Discretions still allows public sex/nudity, but is pretty expensive and honestly, pretty much a shithole. They allow an overwhelming amount of single guys in and if anyone does do anything publicly, they will soon be overwhelmed by the wave of single guys getting way too close, grabbing and wanking off. The "guys" are generally 50/50 hispanics or whites, and ,,,, "not of the best social class". Thats the best way I can say it without being racist sounding. :cool:

There are MANY good clubs around the nation NASCA but check to see if a club is open, they don't update often.
 

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