Just Curious
I'm sincerely curious about your situation. I find the dynamics of this kind of thing interesting to the point of amusement. Not that I think you need to amuse me, but I was wondering if I could impose on you for some info about your situation. If not, that's fine. At the very least, we can enjoy chatting a bit.
Is your husband just recently a jerk, or was he a jerk when you married him. I would assume that if he has always been a jerk, you overlooked it in the name of... well... love or lust or something even more powerful like... money. Why cheat on him, by the way... why not just leave the guy. It certainly would uncomplicate both of your lives. Perhaps the sex is better when it's "forbidden" eh? One last issue... what's your story when you get laid? Out with the girls, or perhaps business meetings? Do you clean up before going home? Do you really think he doesn't know? My guess? He's known all along, and either gets some vicarious thrill from it or is relieved that you're so busy getting banged, you don't notice he's getting some too. BB