He wants more ....

[johnmasters]

Have you experienced a situation like this:

• Your wife fancies a co-worker. He reciprocates and she decides to have sex with him thereby making you her cuckold.
• When you find out she gives you an ultimatum: if you want to keep me you have to let me have sex with him whenever I want.
• You agree
• But he wants more, he wants your wife for himself.

Have you experienced this or something like it? How did it end?

 

[encasedforfun]

Yes. This, I feel, is more common than not.

There are a couple variations for "for himself" and I'm not sure which you are referring to.

The first is that he is the jealous/controlling type and he doesn't want your wife (his girlfriend) doing sexual thing with other men - including you. I believe this happened but can't completely confirm it. I am pretty confident that he forbade her from having sex with me and that when she did she would have to tell him and he would punish her.

The second, which also happened to me, is that he legitimately wanted a monogamous and committed relationship. He was actually married, but unhappy. Apparently he proposed to my wife, expressing his desire to divorce his current wife and marry her. Move in together. He pushed her to leave me and be with him.

As far as I know, she made it clear to him years ago that she has no intention of leaving me and that the relationship with him is what it is, and not going to go beyond that point.

 

[johnmasters]

Yes. This, I feel, is more common than not.

There are a couple variations for "for himself" and I'm not sure which you are referring to.

The first is that he is the jealous/controlling type and he doesn't want your wife (his girlfriend) doing sexual thing with other men - including you. I believe this happened but can't completely confirm it. I am pretty confident that he forbade her from having sex with me and that when she did she would have to tell him and he would punish her.

The second, which also happened to me, is that he legitimately wanted a monogamous and committed relationship. He was actually married, but unhappy. Apparently he proposed to my wife, expressing his desire to divorce his current wife and marry her. Move in together. He pushed her to leave me and be with him.

As far as I know, she made it clear to him years ago that she has no intention of leaving me and that the relationship with him is what it is, and not going to go beyond that point.

Thank you for sharing.

Actually I'm not sure which variation applied in my case. It was all a bit complicated and ended badly.

After I'd agreed to her continuing to have sex with her co-worker I made only one condition, that they should stop going behind my back. My wife set up another date with him. They were going to spend a night in a hotel. She told me which hotel and left to meet him. I went out myself and when I came back I found her in the kitchen crying her heart out. He'd quite literally left her standing at the roadside. To add to her humiliation a local ********** who was also a neighbour, had offered her a lift into town.

For the longest time I thought that he'd chickened out because he couldn't cope with me knowing he was having sex with my wife. One thing has niggled at me though. Other co-workers had accused my wife of leading him on. Did he dump her because he realised she was not going to leave me?

 

[encasedforfun]

Thank you for sharing.

Actually I'm not sure which variation applied in my case. It was all a bit complicated and ended badly.

After I'd agreed to her continuing to have sex with her co-worker I made only one condition, that they should stop going behind my back. My wife set up another date with him. They were going to spend a night in a hotel. She told me which hotel and left to meet him. I went out myself and when I came back I found her in the kitchen crying her heart out. He'd quite literally left her standing at the roadside. To add to her humiliation a local ********** who was also a neighbour, had offered her a lift into town.

For the longest time I thought that he'd chickened out because he couldn't cope with me knowing he was having sex with my wife. One thing has niggled at me though. Other co-workers had accused my wife of leading him on. Did he dump her because he realised she was not going to leave me?

Ah I see. We had a similar condition. I was ok with her sexting him and exploring the idea of some kind of ongoing relationship, but I wanted to be let in on the details. She refused. I think the secrecy is part of the fun and excitement for her.

Interestingly enough, my wife also flirts with other men at the office (and pretty much everywhere else). So much so that a co-worker of hers told me that his wife doesn't like my wife because she is too flirty.

 

[Kenbcolley]

My wife’s boyfriend for over50 years was very possessive of her but she made it clear to him if he wanted her I came to . I asked her one time do you love John she said without hesitation yes but I could never live with him without you he is to possessive , she was defiantly the boss in our set up

 

[Nazareth]

A similar experience, albeit 50+ years ago...
Got married very young to a girl I had been dating steadily for over a year, and we had some dates infrequently before that.
Everything seemed to be going well, until she "asked permission" one night, out of the blue, to fuck another guy that was her coworker.
I consented, thinking it was a one-time thing. It immediately became an every night thing.

If memory serves, he had moved away or something similar, and that was the end of that.... until he reappeared a couple or so months later.
He sent her a telegram (of all things!) and was asking her to leave me for him, among other things.

I found it, was quite unhappy about it, and we divorced shortly after.
Not because of that; there was a lot more going on, but that was the proverbial final straw.

 

[johnmasters]

My wife’s boyfriend for over50 years was very possessive of her but she made it clear to him if he wanted her I came to . I asked her one time do you love John she said without hesitation yes but I could never live with him without you he is to possessive , she was defiantly the boss in our set up

Yes, I get the impression that my wife was the one in control too. She decided how she would fuck him even gave permission for him to cum inside her because she wanted to feel what it was like. I know she too wanted more from the relationship and seriously considered leaving me for him but when it came down to it she felt, perhaps mistakenly, that he was only interested in sex and that I was the better husband and father.

 

[johnmasters]

A similar experience, albeit 50+ years ago...
Got married very young to a girl I had been dating steadily for over a year, and we had some dates infrequently before that.
Everything seemed to be going well, until she "asked permission" one night, out of the blue, to fuck another guy that was her coworker.
I consented, thinking it was a one-time thing. It immediately became an every night thing.

If memory serves, he had moved away or something similar, and that was the end of that.... until he reappeared a couple or so months later.
He sent her a telegram (of all things!) and was asking her to leave me for him, among other things.

I found it, was quite unhappy about it, and we divorced shortly after.
Not because of that; there was a lot more going on, but that was the proverbial final straw.

Yes, I think I would have been seriously pissed if my wife had taken up with her co-worker again.