It was not a one time thing. He took advantage of her at 14 the first time. Then he guilted her into fucking him from then on, all the way up until she was 24 when I met her. Their families lived on a farm isolated. Not many kids or people around to spend time with. He would tell her that he would tell the family what she did with him and she would be shamed and rejected from the family. She eventually just did what he wanted as if it was normal. He coerced her to sleep with him the day of our first date. Her cousin was a piece of garbage. I say that as a Husband who years later encouraged her to sleep with a Black Bull. So looking back, I probably wasn’t much better than he was. But she knew from our first few dates that MFM was something I was interested in and a possibility. We dumped all our secrets and fantasies on each other the first few dates and didn’t scare each other off. We have been happily married 30 years now, so all is well.