I have definitely done my wife in a three way at least 50 times. When you’re DP’ing a woman that’s a ton of incidental contact between dudes, and I don’t mind that. I would even DV her sometime although I never have and that’s pretty much full cock contact, but I think if you like sucking cock you might want to consider the fact you just might be a little bit gay.
There is nothing wrong with that at all. Some of my best friends are stereotypical Hollywood gay movie character gay and I would trust them with my life, but maybe coming to terms with your homo or bi-sexuality might bring you the peace you deserve.
I’m no therapist. I’m just saying. I don’t judge. As long as nobody is suffering as a result do whatever makes you happy with your body.