Going soft

[deniedmike]

Quick question for all the cucks and cuckwannabes

How many of you go soft when trying to fuck your girl? And how many cum too fast? or both?

I'm in the both category and I think its happening more now (and tell me if you feel this way) because I KNOW that I cant go deep enough for her anymore (after a BIG toy I got her..became her addiction) and cant last (stamina)...so i end up going half hard / soft...and trying to put it in her..and shes laughing but im so turned on at the same time.

answers?

 

[mimi27406]

I think this is a very common problem

Many men with all sizes of cocks suffer from the problem of premature ejectulation and to me even worse the humilation of my cock going soft, and limp like a used dish rag. You can't push a limp noodle into the hole. For some it is a medical condition, and may or may not be treatable.

The site of a big virile cock, hard and pounding a woman really turns me on.

 

[duke9555]

cucks often are the type of males
who can't achieve and maintain a decent
erection not that our little nubbins would be
all that impressive hard anyhow ;-)

 

[deniedmike]

yeah duke i know.. i also know that once i thought i could go deep enough
to satisfy her but NOW after her big 10inch toy..im not even halfway where that toy can go. its amazing how much she NEEDS it that long and thick now

 

[imm987987]

I have a problem going soft. I don't know what my deal is, but I really need to concentrate. Every little distraction kills my erection. Then my girlfriend gives me this really nasty look like she's gonna cry. Maybe that's why she found a boyfriend with a 10" rock hard cock

 

[looser]

I went quite often soft even when i was around 20. My girlfriend went mad every time it happened and in the end she started to fuck other guys and the relation ceased. I guess i was about to become a cuckold at that time but I later married a woman that did not get furious when it happened. My dick used to be bigger than avarage 7" -7,5 " but it has shrunk the last few years. I am now almost impotent I only get weak erections that last a few minutes. I try to satisfy my wife using may fingers. My disck is useless and she realise that.

By the way she is now on a business trip with her boss and she is at a hotel by the mediterranean. She cant get home du to that all planes in europe are on the ground. She will stay another few days down there. Good that she trimmed her pussy as usual before she left. I just told her on the phone to relax in the sun and have fun.

 

[duke9555]

I went quite often soft even when i was around 20. My girlfriend went mad every time it happened and in the end she started to fuck other guys and the relation ceased. I guess i was about to become a cuckold at that time but I later married a woman that did not get furious when it happened. My dick used to be bigger than avarage 7" -7,5 " but it has shrunk the last few years. I am now almost impotent I only get weak erections that last a few minutes. I try to satisfy my wife using may fingers. My disck is useless and she realise that.

By the way she is now on a business trip with her boss and she is at a hotel by the mediterranean. She cant get home du to that all planes in europe are on the ground. She will stay another few days down there. Good that she trimmed her pussy as usual before she left. I just told her on the phone to relax in the sun and have fun.

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it's a miracle she stays with you at all

 

[Custer Laststand]

You might consider purchasing a hollow strapon dildo (for you, not her).

Deniedmike,

Regarding your initial question:

Quick question for all the cucks and cuckwannabes. How many of you go soft when trying to fuck your girl? And how many cum too fast? Or both?

I read somewhere that about 30% (~1/3rd) of the adult male population has problems with erectile disfunction (ED). I have no idea how accurate that estimate is, but if it's even approximately right, that's a lot. Among "older" men, presumably the percentage is higher... perhaps much higher. Thus, you aren't alone; far from it.

Regarding the rest of your initial post:

I'm in the "both" category, and I think it's happening more now. I KNOW I can't go deep enough for her anymore. I got her a BIG toy [dildo] which has become her addiction, and I can't last (no stamina), so I end up trying to put my cock in her while half-hard, half-soft. She laughs at me, but I'm turned on at the same time. Answers?

First, congratulations for being turned on when your woman laughs at your erection problems, instead of feeling devastated. Congratulations also for taking action to make things better for her, i.e., by purchasing a 10" dildo for her to use and/or (better still) for you to use on her. Both are very positive.

You might consider purchasing a relatively large hollow strapon with a harness, and wearing it while your woman fucks you on top so she can move in whatever ways maximize her pleasure. This would yield the advantages of combining a large dildo (which your woman likes, evidently) with the emotional satisfaction (for you) of her fucking you, instead of just the dildo, and the advantage of your strap-on hollow dildo never going soft, so she can fuck you as long as she likes.

A disadvantage, of course, is that it will be somewhat strange for your woman to fuck herself to orgasm (perhaps repeated orgasms) each time without you being able to feel anything yourself. But, you pays your money and makes your choices.

You can find one by going here:

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then scrolling down to "hollow strapons," or by going here:

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directly. Or better still, you might be able to find one to purchase firsthand by visiting a local sex shop with your woman.

—Custer

 

[looser]

Let me add, I have suggested Viagra but she said it was no point.!?

Maybe I should consider to become an eunuch.without any sexual desire.

 

[deniedmike]

thanks.. and yeah just want her happiness. think i might go with
STRYKER REALISTIC DONG
because she is addicted to big big now.

 

[Custer Laststand]

Thanks...

You're welcome...

I think I might go with
STRYKER REALISTIC DONG because she is addicted to big big now.

Well, that's impressively large, all right. But it appears not to be hollow. If you aren't able to wear it yourself with a strapon harness (and your own cock inside, presumably), it would seem your wife will be in the same position, so to speak, she's in now.

 

[chrisjohn]

We tried all kinds of toys and in the end she hated them. I think they are ok but at some point she wanted to just go with the real thing. As someone who experienced the same thing as you many years ago and who is quite small it eventually led to her having a very pointed discussion with me about not being happy sexually. That eventually led to her changing in many ways and then to other things. It didn't bother me as much as a lot of people I dont think though as my mom used to date while being married to and it was something that I saw growing up. So when my wife wanted to try it I was not so shocked.

 

[miniaquifer]

since you asked the question, I will let you know that i have a similar problem. After my initial erection, I tend to lose it during foreplay unless she is playing with it. So usually after foreplay, she will reach down with the tips of her fingers and beginning tugging it and then jacking me to get me back hard so I can fuck her.

I have had the same problem of losing erections, so I have ended up focusing on worrying about getting soft, but sometimes that aggravates the situation, so I end up cumming very quickly. It solves the problem of not going soft, but I can't tell you the last time I went for more than a couple minutes without cumming, I usually last anywhere from 30-90 seconds.

 

[duke9555]

since you asked the question, I will let you know that i have a similar problem. After my initial erection, I tend to lose it during foreplay unless she is playing with it. So usually after foreplay, she will reach down with the tips of her fingers and beginning tugging it and then jacking me to get me back hard so I can fuck her.

I have had the same problem of losing erections, so I have ended up focusing on worrying about getting soft, but sometimes that aggravates the situation, so I end up cumming very quickly. It solves the problem of not going soft, but I can't tell you the last time I went for more than a couple minutes without cumming, I usually last anywhere from 30-90 seconds.

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sexual intercourse just isn't your thing

try Viagra?

 

[carina_halerose]

i have no problems getting hard, staying hard or lasting a long time i just have a small cock

 

[duke9555]

i have no problems getting hard, staying hard or lasting a long time i just have a small cock

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stop bragging

 

[rural]

I cum quickly that is for sure. If I do her from behind, I can't last long. The sight of her solid buttocks make me cum quickly.

 

[deniedmike]

yeah alot of us can get to being hard hard.. for them. but they the situation at hand overwhelmes us and we realize we arent gonna make them cum and they are sitting there with a tight pussy that could make us cum at any second..and yet they are pulling us closer to them wanting us deeper and JUST GETTING STARTED

 

[SoonToBe]

For those of you with any interest - several years ago, before Sue "found" other men, I seemed to hit a period where it wouldn't stay hard or wouldn't stay hard for that long.
I realized that I'd started an exercise routine a few months earlier and hadn't really compensated in terms of nutrition. I wised up my diet and started taking multivitamins ("Especially Men" from Vitamin Shop seems good to me) and either one or both of those did the trick and within a few weeks things were back to normal. Sue jokes with me from time to time now that I should either "cum faster" or "be softer" at times.

 

[CuckoldMick]

My problem is this--- in order not to lose my erection after 5 minutes or so I need to ejaculate. Consequently, I cum too soon for my wife. But if anyone recalls, I am 20 years older than my wife in my late 50s and for me I'm just happy to still be I the game. Every once in while I will have a good night and can last 10 to 15 minutes--- keeping pretty hard and holding off. But this isn't the norm. Of course this is a primary reason Kris cuckolded me and why I am resigned to this position in our marriage--- which, by the way, is a better position to be in than being "out of the game".