Hello everyone,
I am an undergraduate student studying love and sex in humans. I am researching information about the cuckold lifestyle and dynamic. There is information that can be found about these topics, however, I thought that personal sentiments and expressions can give deeper insight into the matter. I have a basic understanding the this social situation, so my questions imply this, however, if you feel that I have misunderstood something, please feel free to clarify. My purpose is to learn and not dictate!
Here are my questions. Everyone's comments and thoughts are valued and will be treated with respect.
1. In the cuckold scenario, is there implicit or explicit consent by the cuckold for his partner to engage in this activity?
2. After, or during, the act of cuckolding, does the cuckold find that his mate to be more desired sexually?
3. In continuation with #2, does the partner of the cuckold reciprocate this sexual desire? (I realize that the basic gist is that the female doesn't "want" the cuckold, which is why this situation is being sought.) I read that after cuckolding takes place, some couples feel that they are "in heat."
4. I understand the dominant nature of the bull in the situation, but what boundaries, if any, exist? If the cuckold, for whatever reason, in a serious manner, requested or demanded that the activity stop, would it?
5. In my understanding, the face value of the situation is thus: The female and the bull embarrass the cuckold, enjoying the overt sexual act as well as the humiliation of the cuckold, while he, presumably, enjoys the psychological consequences (humiliation). Where then is the focus of the enjoyment? It was suggested to me that the cuckold may be at the center? It is, after all, called a "cuckold" fantasy. This scenario is playing out to embarrass the cuckold, but isn't he really enjoying it (at a psychological level).
Thank you for any insight and comments. Please know that I am not trying to be aloof or judgmental. That is contrary to what I want to accomplish. I am genuinely seeking understanding to this social phenomena.
I am an undergraduate student studying love and sex in humans. I am researching information about the cuckold lifestyle and dynamic. There is information that can be found about these topics, however, I thought that personal sentiments and expressions can give deeper insight into the matter. I have a basic understanding the this social situation, so my questions imply this, however, if you feel that I have misunderstood something, please feel free to clarify. My purpose is to learn and not dictate!
Here are my questions. Everyone's comments and thoughts are valued and will be treated with respect.
1. In the cuckold scenario, is there implicit or explicit consent by the cuckold for his partner to engage in this activity?
2. After, or during, the act of cuckolding, does the cuckold find that his mate to be more desired sexually?
3. In continuation with #2, does the partner of the cuckold reciprocate this sexual desire? (I realize that the basic gist is that the female doesn't "want" the cuckold, which is why this situation is being sought.) I read that after cuckolding takes place, some couples feel that they are "in heat."
4. I understand the dominant nature of the bull in the situation, but what boundaries, if any, exist? If the cuckold, for whatever reason, in a serious manner, requested or demanded that the activity stop, would it?
5. In my understanding, the face value of the situation is thus: The female and the bull embarrass the cuckold, enjoying the overt sexual act as well as the humiliation of the cuckold, while he, presumably, enjoys the psychological consequences (humiliation). Where then is the focus of the enjoyment? It was suggested to me that the cuckold may be at the center? It is, after all, called a "cuckold" fantasy. This scenario is playing out to embarrass the cuckold, but isn't he really enjoying it (at a psychological level).
Thank you for any insight and comments. Please know that I am not trying to be aloof or judgmental. That is contrary to what I want to accomplish. I am genuinely seeking understanding to this social phenomena.