This is a great thread!
veryhappywife,
Very similar situation here. My wife has been spreading her legs for other guys for over 20 years now. We started out doing mfm, or me always being there to watch. The first few guys who fucked my wife were close personal friends of mine. As we looked beyond guys we knew in everyday life, it became increasingly difficult to find guys who were comfortable fucking my wife in front of me. After a few years, my wife started seeing guys alone.
We had the same problem with our kids. We had to make up excuses why mommy was not home in the evening when she had a date. My wife always got home before the kids got up in the morning. Several times I had to call and wake her up to come home. By the way, as discreet as we tried to be, our kids figured out our lifestyle eventually.
My wife hates condoms so she always goes bare with her boyfriends. Our attempt to mitigate the risk is that my wife dates married men. We rationalize that the right married guys are lower risk. My wife prefers guys who have been married for several years.
The problem with Kate dating married men is that they cannot be paying for hotel rooms all the time. I actually rented an apartment for several years so that my wife's married boyfriends could have a nice, safe place to fuck my wife. We kept the apartment until the kids moved out of the house.
My wife has long-term relationships with half a dozen guys...one of them (her boss) for over 8 years. My wife decided to get an office job and one of her boyfriends hired her. They do not play around in the office, but he has a date with my wife every week.
When we got rid of the apartment ($$$) she told her boyfriends that she would like to continue to see them, but they would have to come to our house for their 'dates'. They all knew she was married and that her husband encouraged her to date other guys, so it was just a matter of them getting to know me and being comfortable fucking my wife while I was around the house.
My wife had each of her boyfriends come to our house for a date and to meet me. I had been eating their cum out of my wife for years, they just did not know that (lol). They are all nice guys. Two of them are black. My wife puts her dates on our shared calendar so that I know who is coming to the house and when. My wife has been dating her boyfriends at our house for a couple of years now and it is awesome.
If you (or your husband) would care to communicate more privately, email me at
robandkate@hotmail.com.
Anyone else who would like to email me is invited too.
Rob
robandkate@hotmail.com