Hey Expatdad, one thing I've figured, those who are the most guilty are the ones who holler the loudest. It doesn't matter the subject, the ones hollering, pointing their fingers at whom they disapprove of are usually the ones most guilty.
And if they aren't guilty by their actions, they are most guilty by their inner most thoughts.
What those who point their fingers of disapproval or name calling don't know, or have figured out is that young people are going to do what they are going to do, whehter it's smoking, liquor and most of all, sex.
When I was younger, I saw jr. high and high school girls participating in activities with Black males that would make even the most jaded of us blush. There was no coercion, no liquor or drugs involved (except maybe a bit of wine or some herb), just a relaxed party in which they participated without any reservation or inhibition.
So, write on, and ignore those who point fingers, call names and make feeble attempts to judge.
After all, if they are so perfect, why are they even on this site to begin with?