Ever Experience This?

[Matt88]

Has anyone ever finally got their wish with their wife/gf finally doing it, but with someone you did'nt like and her enjoying it?

Happened to me a while ago. It did'nt cause problems with us, but at the time I did get pissed off. I got her to go to a casual swingers party. It was at a huge house. Part of the house was for socializing and the other part was for sex. That's if you wanted to. The house was so big you never could hear anything. It was like going into another house. This guy I knew a while back was there and we did'nt really care for each other, but my wife never knew that. One thing lead to another and they did end up fucking that night.

 

[TerminalChocaholic]

Two things

1. be careful what you wish for....

2. obviously you're a much better lover or she would have left with him instead, lol.... so sleep well!

 

[Matt88]

lol...thanks. You know I never asked her to compare. She did enjoy it. I asked for it and I was'nt about to make a huge scene

 

[DanSteele]

I had a related experience. There was a guy a year older than me. I disliked and resented him. He fucked my wife three weeks after we were married.

 

[Matt88]

It gives you pissed off/turned on feeling.

 

[pimpology101]

My ex "went black" twice. The 2nd time was with 2 guys we met online. The one had misrepresented himself to a great extent and wasn't anything physically like what she had hoped for (fat, out of shape, etc). On top of that he was rather arrogant and condascending with a shitty attitude. We went through with it and in retrospect probably shouldn't have. He had a big dick and she enjoyed the sex physically but I was sort of miffed (and yet aroused) the entire time.

 

[Matt88]

I can understand that. They never knew I saw them at the time. I told her I watched some after. Plus I never told her I did'nt like the guy. It took her a long time to get interested in trying this and I did'nt want her thinking she made a mistake

 

[Matt88]

Plus I did'nt want her over analyzing over everything. Just as long as she had a good time

 

[elizab200]

This happened to me once too. We were at a local swingers party, I hooked up with another man, who, unknown to me at the time, my husband loathed. I never hooked up with him again; I mean to me the whole swingers scene was meant to be fun, why ruin it over something trivial.

 

[Dutchman2]

I was dating a beautiful young woman in the early 80s (who happened to be married to someone else, not me.) I was in love. I took her to a party of non-monogamous people, where there was this guy who ultra creeped me out-- nasty. He later turned into a web-pornographer, not that that has anything to do with anything. Naturally, she gave him her number at this party, and later ended up spending a night with him. She couldn't come with him, though, so her body might have been telling her something. Women liked this guy, but to me, he glowed in the dark.

 

[ch23oad]

i know how it is

happened to me with my wife, a guy i really dislike, worst part is she thinks he is a nice guy and he can give her what i cant,

 

[Matt88]

We talked about in the car and when we got home. She was saying how good he was and how he made her feel so relaxed. The whole time I had that pit in my stomach, but I did'nt let her know that. Told her how hot that was and I was happy she had so a good time. Of course that made her want to go on more about it..lol

 

[whiteboy1919]

kind of the reverse actually. Basically I had an irregular hook up with this girl i knew. She had a very wild freshmen year, and was trying to recover her reputation form it. I was in a club with this real douche. He talked a lot of crap but never backed it up. the beggining of freshmen year we had been friends and gone out ot a lot of bars. I had much more luck then him with girls, he cockblocked me a few times and i stopped hanging out with him. At the end of freshmen year i met this girl-we fucked a few times exchanged names/numbers and ended it. the next year we hooked up once and a while, she was pretty easy as near as I coul tell. We were more freinds then fuck buddies, but we still fucked a fair amount. Anyway i hooked up with this really hot girl at a party a friend threw, she was hot and smart so I hung out with her a few times. The first girl found out and flipped. Apparently this girl was her former roommate and pretty much the devil. In retalaiton she decided to take the asshole I mentioned above up on his offers for a date. The guy, despite his bravado, was quite insecure and very ******* of her reputation. so he took her on nice dates, got her good gifts and waited 3 weeks to get a bj. Meanwhile me and her made up and started hooking up again. Before their second date I (unintentionally) asked her to come over for some fun. she gave me a quick bj and thne was like "I need to go on a date with [assholoe]". I laughed and that became a regular thing.

At the end of the year he was being asshole at the party, I asked him if his first fuck of the girl had been slippery enough, because i had fucked her twice before. He didn't beleive me and they still date.

 

[Matt88]

He never ended up saying anything to me at the party. Plus I have'nt seen him since that party. I'm sure he scoped her out and would hit on her when I was'nt around.

 

[sc03]

my wife was fucked my former best friend who I had a major fallout with a few years ago. I had mentioned that I would love for her to experience his big cock and see what his reputation was all about. Unkowing that we had had a fallout and were no longer friends, she hooked up with him at a party and he used her for a few hours before sending her home with a surprise for me...

 

[tj822]

what was the surprise.....a kitty full of cum or did he knock her up

 

[slutwifelisa]

confused reader

You go to the partywith the intention of one or both of you getting fucked. Someone obliges your wife. It is man you do not like. She does not know this. You are annoyed. She had a good time. You like the idea of another man fucking your wife but not a man you don't like, which she didn't know about in the first place. Then you conclude with comment below.

mmmm - i am happy she had good fuck, but what is the basis really of your logic. i don't understand. thank you for sharing story

Plus I did'nt want her over analyzing over everything. Just as long as she had a good time

 

[Matt88]

My point is...It took me a long time to get her interested in trying this. I'm not going to complain to her about who she ended up fucking. If I did she would feel bad about it and probably never do it again.

So posting on here helped me vent a little bit. Its not like I can go out and talk about this to someone. Just helps to get it out on herenand see if someone experienced the same thing.