I think we are all equal as humans.
I think we should be able to have sex with who ever we want, black or white, without having to worry about others thinking the worst about us, or talking crap about us doing so.
My wife has fucked 100+ guys, most of them I was there in the room, but maybe 10 or so were black. I like seeing her with a BBC. I like hearing her pleasure when she squeals and moans with a BBC. I know a BBC makes a difference. I have seen it, I have heard it, I have witnessed it many times, first hand.
If a girl is scared to try, let her stick with what she wants. My wife was shy about it, until she loosened up both mentally and physically. Once her pussy got used to BBC, it was a great life for us both.
If you want to call it BNWO or what ever else, that's cool. I call it great sex.
If a black guy wants to fuck a hot white wife and can do it, good for him, have fun.
If a white hot wife wants to fuck a black guy just to do it, good for her.
If a white couple wants to have fun with a black guy to satisfy their curiosity or to test the waters, good for them.
Same if a black girl wants to try a white guy, just to see the difference, good for her.
I see no issues in black and white having sex with white or black.
It's all about feeling good. If you want to make it a fetish, good for you.
Lets all get naked and have fun.