Sahara and Lifelong cuck,
Thanks, Lifelong cuck, for your interesting account of the cuckolding tradition in both your and your wife's families. I'm not aware of much of that in my or my wife's families.... but we've always lived at great distance from any relatives, so there could be more of it than I'm aware of. My former sister-in-law (my wife's brother's first wife) — a highly intelligent, verbal, outgoing, rather sensuous woman — probably cuckolded him. He wasn't and still isn't, I would guess, particularly into that sort of thing. They divorced and he moved to a different town, re-established himself (this was not a trivial undertaking), and remarried to a woman who appears not to be inclined toward cuckolding him. His former wife has remained single.
A friend and colleague's former wife cuckolded him with another colleague. They divorced; his former wife remarried her lover. They have a stable relationship; both became friends of my wife and me (we were not previously acquainted with her lover). Their children seem not to have been too adversely affected by the divorce. My friend also remarried. His second wife, an attractive verbal woman with an outgoing personality, has opportunities to cuckold him. She travels and sometimes lives in a different part of the U.S. (her home city) in connection with her work. Neither of them has discussed the nature of their sexual relationship(s), however, and neither my wife nor I have asked about it. We figure it's their business.
My brother separated from his first wife in a long and messy divorce; both have since re-married. Adultery was not discussed explicitly as an underlying cause, but may have been an underlying source of resentment for one or both. (They had other problems.)
lifelong cuck said:
Firstly my mother regulary cuckolded my father when I was a child. It got to the point where she wasn't allowed out on her own, she had to have my brother or me with her.
Ah.... so it would seem obvious (to give in to the urge to speculate as a long-distance "armchair psychologist") this must have accustomed you, from the earliest age, to the idea that's what married women do. I must say, though, your mother "not being allowed out unless accompanied by one of your brothers or you" seems fantastic and middle-eastern. See:
Khouri, Norma, 2003, "Honor Lost: Love and Death in Modern-Day Jordan" (209 pp.),
in which the author's best friend is brutally murdered by her own father in a so-called "honor killing." (Subsequently Ms. Khouri, a beautiful woman, managed to flee Jordan and eventually made her way to Australia.) It's a powerful book.
In any case, this brings to mind the question of whether you and/or your brother became accomplices in your mother's cuckolding of your father, accompanying her to her trysts because... well... you were supposed to be with her. I would imagine she was not told she couldn't fuck other men with, in effect, the assistance of you and your brothers. (Just guessing....)
lifelong cuck said:
Secondly my eldest brother was regulary cuckolded by his pretty wife all through their marriage. He was forever changing jobs and locations because he caught her once again with another man.
So clearly, the traditional religious and societal view that it is a matter of great shame if a man's wife fucks other men was deeply imbued in your brother....
lifelong cuck said:
My wife has cuckolded me from the very beginning and her aunt openly cuckolded her uncle, even to the point where her boyfriends would drive up to the door and pick her up for dates.
....so your wife was inspired by family tradition....
lifelong cuck said:
Many of my workmates have cuckolded me so it's pretty common knowledge my wife has always been easy and a pushover for any guy with a big dick. I've had work collegues drink with me and come home so they could bed my wife. I'm also known as a cuckold in any companies my wife has worked. After the first few times I caught her cheating and did nothing she stopped trying to hide she was cheating on me. I even ended up sharing an office 20 years later with the first guy my wife stayed out all night with.
....and you, it would seem — unlike your older brother — accepted that it was, in essence, your wife's privilege and prerogative to date and fuck whomever she wished.
lifelong cuck said:
My wife with her mother's support has gone on sex holidays without me, and her mother has encouraged my wife to be like to her aunt!
That seems very cool, actually.
Regarding your posts about your small and vanishing cock, and that being the stated cause of your wife divorcing you.... have you ever considered and discussed with her the possibility of you using a strap-on hollow dildo (so your penis could fit inside), of a size she would consider suitable? See, for instance:
http://www.vac-u-lock.com/catalog/71/120/Hollow-Cock-Strap-Ons.html
—Custer