Nazareth said:
"What i do see is that over the years the cucks and also some wives are wanting a more harder way of having sex and in approach".
Can you elaborate, please?
Do you mean they want the actual sex to be more forceful or the wife be 'manhandled'?
What does a "harder approach" mean?
Exactly like you said, more forceful almost like more of a bit aggressive way.
First few threesomes, or with the wife while he watched, was way softer. Starting with some massaging and oral and then fucking.
Guess the influence of porn, got harder over the years, shifted the mindset and fantasies. Also movies like 50 shades. Some wanted a softer bdsm way while others wanted the more porn abusive way. Had many invites by couples with 2 or 3 other guys, so not a softer build up like before that but get a hot dressed wife in a room with some hard dicks and these guys loved to see her suck, fuck and the cum shooting on her. Before mostly cum inside her while fucking, later no way! Most liked us to cum on their face or tits.
Now I see another even more forceful/aggressive/abusive way, guess also influenced by porn. Last date I had with a couple recently wanted a manhandled way and they wanted to film this. Did her mostly anal, deep throating her so she had a lot of spit, made her squirt a few times while squeezing/pulling her nipples while my hand was almost inside her. They both loved it this way and showed the video to a friended couple, got an invite for a drink from that couple!
A girl i date ( also some wives of couples found this so) once said, if i want to make love I go to my boyfriend. She just want hard and dirty sex from me.