Saraha said:First have a good discussion with her while you are under the influence of alcohol, and talk about the desires and fantasies that have come up in your mind, and whether she loves you enough to allow them to come true. Promise to help her with her fantasies, even if she does not yet know what they are.
Once you know how your girlfriend feels about cuckold marriages, you will know what the next step is based on the look on her face and what she says to you. If she throws plates, then you will know not to waste years of your time chasing an impossible dream.
adviceeneeded said:My situation happened on accident. We were buzzed and finally gave in on letting someone join, been teasing her forever. It really wasn't that great neither or us had much experience with sex and it didn't last long she wanted to quit after we each had a turn. But, I suspected something different and he was over one day I got home early. I didn't catch them but, she said he has been stopping by, and I asked her to let him join one night. Now over the last 3 months it's happened when i'm with her and out of the blue really. He's had me join them a few different times to hang out and i'm getting more comfortable.
Godzillasmith said:So an update.
We were making love Friday night and we began fantasizing about this whole idea. She was telling me how she met a guy a few weeks ago and he had been texting her a lot. She told me that he has been persistent and wanted to go out with her. She immediately grabbed her phone and texted him to make plans for Saturday. I immediately busted my nut in her. The next day she went out with him. She left at 8 and didn't call me until 1230 to come over.
She was wearing a sun dress and heels. I asked her about her date and she said it was nice. They went for drinks and then he took her home. I asked her if they didn't anything and she was kind of tentative but she knew I knew what had happened. She showed me her hickeys on her tits and bite marks. She told me that she rode him and he fucked her for an hour. She began sucking my dick taking little breaks to tell me more and more.
Apparently when they got to his house she went into the bathroom to remove her underwear because she was buzzed and knew what was coming. They started making out on his couch and she started fingering herself. They went into his bed room and fucked. I asked her if they used protection and she said she asked him to wear a condo
But then had him take it off.
I asked her if we could fuck and she said no because she didn't want two men in her in the same night. She asked if she could see him again. Thoughts?
Godzillasmith said:Yes and no. She is on the pill.
I told her that if she wants to she can see him as much as she wants. She started crying this evening because she felt like a slut and cheater. I assured her she is neither. Just my hot girlfriend.